Boyfriend's roommates probably heard us having sex...

So, I was REALLY drunk and me and my boyfriend were having sex and I was apprently really loud moaning like crazy and the roommates heard. Next day my boyfriend tells me "so, 0000 was like 'soooo... I think I heard jen moaning last night...' hahaha" so I asked "OMG so what did you say?" "I said, 'idk what you're talking about'" is that really how the conversation goes...? What do you guys think about when you hear your good friend's girlfriend going crazy in bed... should I be completely embarrassed and never be able to see their faces again because that's how I feel right now DAMN IT. And do guys talk about having sex with their girlfriends in a VERY PROUD WAY esp is she was a virgin before? And do guys on in detail about the talk...? I'm so worried about what my boyfriend might say when he's just with the guys when it comes to the topic of sex ... becuase I recently lost my virginity to him.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I wouldn't worry too much about it. It happens, this is a part of life when you have to live with other people. I live with other people right now and they have probably heard me getting it on with my boyfriend. Thing is you are with your boyfriend stuff is going to happen.

    Best thing I try to do is be respectful towards the room-mates and try not to get too loud. You were drunk and probably didn't realize, so the best thing to do is to just laugh it off. It's nothing to be too embarrassed about, I'm sure they have done the same at some point, or if not they will in the future.

  • If you feel this strongly, just let him know that you don't want him to discuss anything that you two do in private with anyone else.

    Of course guys are going to want to talk about these things to each other.

    Thats perfectly normal,

    because most good friends discuss things like that.

    He can say things without going into detail such as:

    "Me and my girls love life is great."

    "Me and jen have good sex together."

    He is still giving information but at the same time not telling people how you are intimately.

    • This is true guys don't go into extreme detail, but they'll discuss general things, like something fun they did, that you're good in bed, or simply that they had sex with you the other night and it was awesome. Stuff like that.

  • You should moan while having sex. It's supposed to feel good. And you shouldn't feel embarrassed. It's not a big deal. If they say something to you just smirk and say something like, "Tell (Boyfriend's name) to stop doing such a good job. It's his fault."

Most Helpful Guys

  • It depends what kind of guy your boyfriend is. I have some friends that tell me too much (personally, I don't care to hear anything), while I have some friends that don't talk like that at all, so you should talk to your bf.

    If I was in the roommate's position, I would think..."god f***ing damn it, I need to get laid!" to be honest. If he laughed a bit about it, obviously he's not some uptight jerk that will belittle you for it. I suggest the next time you see him, crack a light joke, like "I'll make sure HE doesn't make too much noise for you" or something to that effect.

  • Most guys WILL say stuff like "we had sex" or "it was amazing" and stuff like that, and sometimes even "she has great t*ts/ass", but they rarely get into play-by-play details or anything. I mean, it's obvious that you guys were having sex, they HEARD you, but guys are mostly "good for him", or are jealous because they aren't having sex too. They don't really care that YOU were having sex, though; it's kind of expected and no big deal.

    So, don't get embarrassed or make any big deal about it, and they probably won't either.

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  • Guys really don't care. Me and my friends never really hid the fact that we were having sex with someone (if it was a GF). The girls always got self conscious but we thought nothing off it. It's not like we don't' know its going on.

    Guys are usually pretty open with their guy friends about their sex lives. They probably know when he got lucky after taking you out to dinner last weekend.

    Honestly don't worry about it. At the very most, it just gave em a good little chuckle hearing you moan and knowing the two of you were enjoying yourselves.

  • First off, don't feel completely embarrassed and ashamed to see them. Especially at this age, his friends will likely assume the two of you f*** every chance you get. Generally they'll just be like cool my boy got some, and move on with life.

    As to the conversation, it depends on the people. Some guys talk about it alot, others don't. So I can't really say what might have happened without knowing him.

  • The guys who heard you moaning and screaming are going to think you are more sexy than before, and for sure some of them jerked off when they heard you having sex, sorry, didn't mean to creep you out, but I'm sure some of them did.

    Don't be surprised if some of them try to sleep with you eventually.

    Nothing to worry about though, you definitely become more desirable in their eyes.