Boyfriend said I had a "big fat ass."

I think it was a compliment but I'm not sure. He told me I had a nice ass, says I have a big fat ass, then says I love you, baby during sex. Is this a compliment?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • He probably meant "phat" not "fat". "phat" is good. My boyfriend days that to me a lot and he says it's a compliment, he grabs abd smacks my butt a lot during sex. So I'm pretty sure your boyfriend didn't mean that you are "fat".

    • True. It's not like he called ME fat during an argument or anything...it was said in the heat of the moment and my Boyfriend does the same with grabbing and smacking it.

    • Lol yeah so I'm pretty sure you can take it as a compliment.

  • LOL, it just sounds like a badly-worded compliment. He meant well, he just probably didn't think about how he said it.

  • lol that's just dirty talk. I don't think it's a compliment though

    • What do you mean, I'm curious?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Saying a girl has a fat ass could be a compliment or insult depending on who says it. From the context, it sounded like he was giving a compliment. lol

  • You're asking the wrong people. Only your Boyfriend can tell you if it's meant as a compliment. Sounds like he already said as much.

    • True. It didn't come off mean and wasn't said in a hurtful way, but he knows I'm self-conscious about my weight. I don't think he threw in the "fat" as a bad thing but it caught me by surprise that he said that.

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  • yeah its a compliment... just worded awkwardly.

  • Your boyfriend is a douche...

  • I think that's more than just a compliment -- that is *the* compliment, arguably the most flattering thing a woman can hear a guy say to her:)

  • I'd expect it to be a complement, guys love booty

  • I am going to guess that it was a compliment...now me & my friends..it would be an insult...

  • This sounds like a compliment to me ;-)

  • Its a compliment he likes your ghetto booty.

  • Sounds like it. lol Just kind of a crude way to word it.

  • Definitely a compliment. He said you have a big fat ass right after saying you have a nice ass. That is a compliment.

  • I think it was meant as a compliment

  • It could be a compliment and an insult depending on how its used, but he was using it as a compliment. :)