Boyfriend told me he had a sex dream about another girl?

OK so me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone and out of nowhere, I didn't even ask! he tells me he had a dream that he was having sex with a girl and he blew a load on her face and he starts laughing about it and saying it was awesome or whatever and I start laughing with him too...but inside my feelings are hurt. I think part of the reason why I'm hurt is Because I don't let him come on my face and I feel like since he has dreams about having sex with other girls he doesn't enjoy doing sexual things with me. and when I dream, I only dream about having sex with him. am I being reasonable or am I making a big deal out of nothing?
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  • Thats totally reasonable your boyfriend is being a d*** about that (I am not saying he is a bad person just in this situation he is) I see a lot wrong with this, starting with that he was dreaming about other girls, he shouldn't be dreaming about anyone but you and its HIS dream, he could have came on you in his dream even if you won't let him in real life because of the fact that its his dream. Second, lets say its unavoidable that you have this dream it just happens, he shouldn't have told you he had it, that is hurtful and if the relationship means something to him he shouldn't be doing things that stupid. lastly, he then proceeded to laugh about it, I don't know why you would even question that, I know I don't know the whole situation but if I was ever said "oh yea so last night I dreamed about having sex with another girl" and then laughed about it to my girlfriend I would sure as hell hope that she would be pissed off and slap me the next time she saw me because that's just terrible.

  • these two guys comments are tools. I doubt they have even had a girlfriend.

    dreams of other people are normal. telling you about it is a silly way of trying to get you to let him do it to you. I'm guessing he has already asked you and you said no. so what else can he do?

    let him do it. what's it gonna hurt? ask him for something sexual you want in return.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Your being reasonable maybe it's just that he wants something differently is why he dreams with another girl that is actually giving him what he wants but if I was you I would not let him do what I wouldn't feel comfortable with If he loves you he'll understand and respect that

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  • You're being reasonable.

    I mean, he can dream about whatever he wants, but there's no way he should be rubbing your face in it.

    How would he feel if you said you had a dream where you dumped him, and you felt so good when you did it ?

    Or that you were having sex with another guy, and in the dream he caught you both... and then cried in the corner, while watching you and jerked himself off? And you thought this was hilarious?

    I think he'd be upset.