Boyfriend walked in on me cheating?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend walked in on me giving another guy a blowjob. His d*** was in my mouth when he walked in. What should I do? We've been together for 2 years. He just got mad and left.

[Ubetiburn]

Not really much that you can do, got caught with your hand in the cookie jar so to speak.

You made the choice, now you have to live with the consequences. You threw two years away for what? What did you expect him to do when he saw your slurping on someone elses beef stick, sit down next to you, wipe your chin and ask you how your day was?

Seriously?

Here is something that I learned in my many years of sex and life. Maybe it will help you.

Say what you mean, mean what you say. Above all be honest in all that you say or do.

If I was you I would bank on your relationship being over due to your actions and try to find out why I cheated and what the relationship meant to me. If it is even worth trying to save. After all you are under 18, are you going to college? Moving to a new/bigger city? Was he the one for you. THE ONE? If so why were you cheating.

Why were you cheating? Did you want to see what it was like sucking someone else off? Is your now ex-s penis too small or too big? Was the sex not adequate or to your liking either in frequency or size, or even the sex it's self?

Once you answer the questions (honestly) then you will know if you should try to see him or move on. Just becuase you decide that you still want to be with him you have to remember that it is now his choice on wether or not he wants to get back with you. Expect that he is going to be with someone (or more then one) else before he gets back with you if not now, then he will do it sooner or later. After all if you can suck someone else off why can he not get sucked off, you screwed up first.

It's one of lifes lessons. Learn it now while you are young. "You do not know what you have until you loose it!"

[archer86]

Yep. And women are so quick to say how much men cheat. It takes two to tangle. This is not a case where only twenty women are cheating with ten thousand men. Come on, women cheat too.

Look at it this way. What if YOU walked in on your boyfriend who was eating another woman's p****. How would you feel? Yep.

I'm a bit surprised he didn't beat the sh*t out of both you and the other guy. It's not like either of you didn't know who's dating who and what you were doing so you can't use those arguments. People get killed doing this stuff. Yes, they do. And who gets the blame? The poor sucker who got cheated on.

Take my strongest advice: NEVER CHEAT AGAIN! EVER!

[Anonymous]

Well,what can you expect? Did you expect him to watch his girlfriend giving another guy a blowjob and cheer "keep it up,you're doing great,babe!"?

Of course he's mad,hurt and disgusted. How would you feel if your boyfriend cheated on you?

As to answer your question "what should I do?"

You should be ashamed...ask yourself why did you cheated on him?

You should accept the fact that he won't be coming back.

The most important thing... what you should remember that if you can't be FAITHFUL then don't bother being in relationship.

[SunshineAmy]

He won't take you back, move on. Learn from the mistake and don't do it again.

[EverythingReal]

If I were him I'd dump you. You messed up, now you face the consequence.

[0ddjob]

This.

[kheserthorpe]

You're not together any more.

He's your ex-boyfriend.

Noi you won't get him back.

[baliguy11]

so did you like the new guy's cock? seems like your Boyfriend is an ex now. oh yeah... did you finish after he walked in? have to ask.

[PoeticNinja]

Oh well, you're young. Move on.

[tadpole25]

He was right to leave. And if he's smart he won't come back.

You should start looking for a new boyfriend (whoever that unfortunate person will be).

[wbwass]

why would you cheat on a guy that youve been with for 2 years?

[beastman88]

well I would suggest not sucking other guys d***s if you ever want a real long term relationship to work. this sounds like a trolling q anyway. its as if you set it up so he would find out. like really what the hell were you thinking? of course he was mad, its not like he was going to join in or something.

[Konnour]

I feel sorry to your (ex)-boyfriend, that probably was very traumatic and disgusting to see it, and not just seeing any girl taking an ugly, hairy d*** in her mount but a girlfriend - that increases the severity of it thousandfold!

You should feel ashamed, you know you cheated and what do you expect to hear now? Sympathy answers? You won't find them here.

I hope he will never even look at you again, 'coz you don't deserve it.

..but hey - maybe this question is just a trollbait, but who knows? Nowdays a lot of crazy sh*t happens.

[onlyaguy]

What should you do? That depends on what you want, and why you cheated.

Keep in mind that whenever either person cheats, it is ALWAYS perceived to be the guy's fault. Perhaps you can somehow use that in you favor, as many women do.

[Ubetiburn]

Depends on why she cheated? How does that matter? She cheated, she was dishonest, unfaithful, deceitful, and above all expecting the same person NOT to cheat on her! The ball (so to speak) is out of her court 500%.

[onlyaguy]

Perhaps I was not clear. She is obviously 100% at fault and deserves nothing with respect to this guy. I was responding to her question of what to do, and a little insight into why she did it would be helpful in answering that.

[G_GTom]

Yup, you're starting early. Women will soon pass men up in the cheating department. Is just who women are.

[justme20]

ahhh the fact that women are now able to do it now something needs to be done right? lol

[onlyaguy]

@justme20: "the fact that women are now able to do it " - As if they haven't "been able to" and "didn't" in the past? "something needs to be done" - Yes, what needs to happen is to recognize the fact that women cheat too. There is another question up right now from a girl whose boyfriend walked in on her with another guy's d*** in her mouth. So spare us the female righteous indignation.

[Dragan]

I would do the same. I don't know really what do you expect?

[xXxAx3LxXx]

Whore. Should I say much? Karma will take care of the rest.

[kysalle]

can you blame him?!

[Peter24]

Good girl did you swallow his cum, bj isn't cheating but kissing, touching and full on sex is cheating i'll say. I'd date ya n don't worry if his mad and walked out it's his loss

[Anonymous]

Did you keep going after he left?

[Anonymous]

Why you worried about keeping him around when you want to give other guys blow jobs?

[Anonymous]

did you finish?

hes not going to take you back unless he's a f***ing moron.

[Anonymous]

You are under 18. Move on to the next guy. No sweat off your back