Boyfriend wants his friend to watch us doing stuff?...

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend has a male friend and sometimes they text each other as the friend wants to come round and watch me suck my boyfriend off... my boyfriend asked me to suck him on webcam while his friend watched, and recently my boyfriend has asked what I think if his friend comes round and masturbates while I suck my boyfriend... my boyfriend has said he also would find it horny if I masturbated off his friend as well... I got a bit upset about all this because I don't want to be touching another guy and made to feel like a slut but my boyfriend says its just a bit of fun... I'm confused because I don't know if it's normal to want your girlfriend to 'wank' off your male friend or let a friend watch while your girlfriend sucks you off? ... I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 36 and his friend is about 38 .. is my boyfriend just asking for harmless fun or is he a bit if a douche bag? wev'e been together a year and 3 months.

[Phoenix1991]

Okay okay, first off , WTF! Second off, Why? why would someone want to let someone else see their girlfriend naked nonetheless have sex with someone. Its quite strange if you ask me. I'm not an asshole or anything , but if one of my friends, guy or girl asks if they can see my girlfriend naked is going to be really disappointed. I wouldn't let anyone in a million years see my girlfriend naked other then myself. Even with Ex's, when I may have a picture of them naked or something, I would never send it to anyone else spite of revenge or anything. Its called common decency, I guess its going out the window along with chivalry and manners. Sorry I highly recommend you say no, your body is precious, you trust your boyfriend with it, no one else should have the same privilege. =( I know I sound kinda mean but I find that extremely disrespectful for even considering the idea of your boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

He's a bit of a douche, I think. He's getting his friend involved making it a three way relationship, kind of by the back door.

If he wants a threesome, he should just man up and say so, and accept your answer. This slow escalation sh*t, is just childish.

[TruthJones]

Dude your boyfriend is trying to set you out...but I guess its true what they say. it ain't no fun if the homies can't have none...lol, but seriously dump him he doesn't sound like a decent guy..because no guy I know would want to share a girl that he cared about with his friends, let alone let them watch...DUMP HIM

[Asker]

thanks hun, I think I am going to dump him, I deserve better xx

[TruthJones]

yea you do,way better :)

[Angel0702]

That's just nasty! I'm a strong believer in it should just be between you and your partner... I'd tell him no. How would he feel if it were your guy friend? Or would that not make a difference

[arbaby]

i would say you should tell him if his friend wants his d*** sucked that he should do it... a guy doesn't really care about you if he is willing to share you with another guy...

[beans]

I think your boyfriend and his friend see you as a little sex toy, because you're much younger. Tell him to f*** off.

[BillyTheMountain]

Expect for this to transition to a threesome sooner or later. Then you'll get to watch them do stuff together...

[Habakkuk]

yeah sounds like a douche, I couldn't imagine asking somebody to do that, if my friend was there I would be like "GTFO"

[ilovemyjose101]

That isn't normal.

If the guy loves you he wouldn't want his friends to see you naked. :S

i vote douche bag.

[debsman]

It's called being used.

[taster]

his elevator must not go all the way to the top...needs to take a long walk on a short dock

[bel42]

He's just using you. That's not normal at all.

[Anonymous]

yeah he sounds like a douche, if anyone were to ever ask me that I would just be like f*** no and be like see ya!