Boyfriend wants to take a break from sex for a while?

[Anonymous]

... what are some other fun things I can do with him sexually? we had a broken condom incident and I think he's just a little freaked out for now. I used to give him blowjobs a lot, and I love doing it but I feel like they could use some spicing up / variety etc. if you have any suggestions another idea I had was masturbating in front of each other... but I'm kinda nervous to suggest it. I really just want to see him do but not me lol but that wouldn't be fair. I guess I just don't know how much is too much... I usually use a vibrator but I don't know if that will freak him out / be intimidating / a turn off or whatever. I can also get off with just my hands, but it's not as visually exciting because I pretty much just rub my clit in circles. any tips/ opinions on that? also, I've never actually given him a handjob, I just feel like it's a lost cause because the guy is pretty much always going to know how to do it better so why bother trying lol. is this a pretty accurate assumption or should I go for it?

[sweetangel19903]

OK first first of all with the bj's try pop rocks guys love it I did that for an x of mine he loved it so much he left marks in my sholdres you can also try hot and cold like a warming lub and an ice cube or sipping warm mint tea the cool of the mint with the warm of you mouth will drive him crazy and finely is try light S an M come up behind him blind fold him and take the bj from there but make him bag for it tell him you not got to give it to him tell he asks very very nicely lol and that if treys to do any thing about it he will get nothing.

as for the masturbating thing id say go for it but use you hands and be a little dramatic with moan squirm move what ever it is that you like or fill conferrable with if you have not already watch some p*rn of a women doing it guys whack of to that stuff all the time it because men all natrley visual so seeing you will get him raved up np.

lastly guys love hj in less he says other wise but if he dose just ask him how he like it do like me to this to you or that and so on hell I let my boyfriend take my hands and show me how he likes it done even since then I have got him off with just my hands lol. and if he is not one for a hj give him a boob job if you have not tryd it yet . blind fold him for that one 2. hope this helps lol have fun,

[kheserthorpe]

Its more fun when a girl does it for you.

If you want to watch him masturbate, and learn to give a hj, and try it ... uh ... that seems like that all might work together :p

[stubbsy]

check on line for self stimulants, because there are powders and gels that really get you going, and if you have these gels etc, he won't want a break for long,x

[Ugliness]

He's a fool if he wants to take a break from sex for a while.