Boyfriend watchs TV while I give him oral sex

So when my boyfriend fingers me... or when I give him oral sex... He ends up watching some tv. My ex did that but he payed more attenion to me most of the time instead of the tv. My current boyfriend mostly looks at the TV when I'm not looking. I feel like its rude. What do you think? this ever happen to you? Men, do you do that for a reason or just because your girlfriend sucks at giving head?
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thank you guys so much :) I just wanted to know if it was a thing you guys do when you give head. ill turn the TV off next time :) THANK YOU <3
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Sweety it's time to crack the whip! This isn't ok! I won't even let my boyfriend do that when we're on the phone! That's a sort of bonding time for a couple and if he isn't paying attention that's a big problem! If he gets mad when you bring it up or turn off the TV then don't give head! If he isn't willing to pay attention to you when your paying attention to him then he doesn't deserve it! I think you both need to sit down and talk, there seems to be some problems in your relationship that need to be discussed!

  • What is on the tv?

    A regular show or p*rn?

    Either or, it is still rude.

    Instead of confronting him about this next time you are ready to go down,

    try saying, "This time I'd like to keep the TV off."

    So this time his entire focus can be on you.

    If he asks about this, then just tell him how you really feel.

    Communication gets you far.

    Putting things under the rug only allows a build up.

    • yeah. I was gunna do that next . I'm all about communication. but I only see him probaly once a wk for only 3 hrs and I wanna make the best of it. But still. your right. Thank you :)

    • Np :) glad I could help.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Honestly, turn the TV off for a better experience for the both of you.

    Watching TV will only disturb what's going in the real life. And it'll cut the connection between you, and make the sex less valuable for both.

    Tell him, and turn the damn TV off.

  • I agree. But you need to talk to him about it, not to us.

    Personally, I can't not look at the screen when the TV is on. It's like a reflex. Which is why I keep it off for sex.

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  • You know he does not care much for you and yes it is rude.

    You are just a tool for him.

    Think about it.

  • You should find a different trade. This one does not suit you.

    • Ha ha! Nice!

  • My feeling that he is not really that interested in you.

    He is getting what he wants and he can watch TV at the same time?

    Come on now sweetheart!

    He should be totally absorbed with you and not even notice the TV is on!

    Dump him!

    Find someone who will appreciate you more!

  • I don't like fellatio, but when I making love, then I focused on woman. Soft music is acceptable.

  • If you want him to pay attention to you then just ask him to if it makes you upset or badly