Boys do you have to be hard while dry humping or do you get hard while doing it?

[Anonymous]

ok so me and my boyfriend were all alone in my living room late last night the lights were off and we were watching tv we were snuggling and I was really tuned on so I start kissing his neck and his lips and pull him on top of me and we start grinding against each other I'm usually very timmid and shy even wth him but I was so into it it was the most enjoyable thing weve done together he kept getting harder and harder and kept thrusting into me he got softer a couple times too what's up with that

[Firmwear]

Most guys will get hard while dry humping, but some may already be. Just depends on what you were doing right before. As for him getting softer, how long were you dry humping? If it was only a few minutes, he probably didn't get softer, his penis probably just changed position in his pants and you didn't feel him as much. If you were grinding for awhile (20 minutes or more), then it's quite possible he lost his erection due to chafing, wasn't as turned on, etc.

The final answer would be that he ejaculated and got softer - but he probably wouldn't get hard again for awhile and wouldn't want to continue humping you after he came.

[Anonymous]

Before I answer your question, how old are you- and what is the law for your state on having sex?

[Asker]

I am 17 the age of consent is 16 and dry humping isn't sex

[Opinion Owner]

No, your right! but talking about anything close to sex makes me uncomfortable unless its legal. To answer your question - humping you is an attraction (why he got bigger) but while he was humping you he could have bent his member (making it softer) or blew a load (making it softer) or thought of a bad memory or lost the mood (making it softer)

[Asker]

Lol he only got soft a couple times

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like he busted his member up- nothing to worry about lol. I've done it a few times and it can make a man cry just like getting kicked in the balls... Imagine having sex and then pulling out too far and nailing your piece into her thigh... AHHHH the pain.

[Honest-Matt]

Aw I f***ing hate when that happens...

[am1029]

its quite normal...it will be hard as long as he is excited...if the excitement drops it will become soft...