Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
The Breast Size Obsession
So I've been seeing a lot of question on here about "Do guys like women with 32A/32B cups or whatever, and other questions about like "Are my breast to small" and whatnot. I've seen a lot of it on here about women letting there breast size effect them or there worth or whatnot. And I know I can't make it stop but I really wish women would feel more happy about the body they're in.
I understand where other people are coming from, they might feel like they're breast won't ever grow or they may feel left out that there friends get asked out more than they do. My thing is why does breast size have to matter? If a guys likes you for you and for your personality then that's all that should matter.
There is No Such Thing as the "Perfect" Size
Some breast are big and some are small, and some people are flat chested but that doesn't mean you just beat yourself up and just sit there and pout. Breast size shouldn't be the thing you use to attractive men or guys.
The way you attract men is by being yourself and loving the body you are in. I think there is no "perfect cup size." A's, B's, C's, who cares we all have them. Why can't we as women just be happy and love the body that were in. Sometimes I wish mine were bigger but I just work with what God gave me. I think women that let their breast size determine there worth have a low self-esteem and low confidence.
You Are Beautiful
Love your body, who cares if they aren't big at least you have some, some people don't have any. I would like to say that whoever is reading this that you are all beautiful, you don't need breast implants or something to boost your self-esteem to make guys like you. Love the body you're in, tell yourself that your beautiful, be yourself, of course. That's the best thing a person can be.
I hope this sums up the title of myTake, I wish I could help you all that are maybe insecure or whatnot. I guess the best thing I can do is just give advice. Don't ever let someone tell you that your not pretty or your breasts are not big enough. Who cares, as long as you are yourself and you love yourself and have a bright personality then that's all that should matter.
Know Your Worth
Those of you that may wish you breasts were bigger you don't want them trust me, you'll end up having back pain like me when I get older. Be happy and thankful with what you have, and another thing never get implants please, they aren't good for your health and they have some side effects. Know your worth and love your body, you are beautiful.
What Girls & Guys Said
108 54I'm large-breasted and it's so annoying. Clothes don't fit me properly (especially anything with an empire waistline) and I have to spend over 100$ for a decent bra. There are very few tops that I own that I don't look like I'm busting out of. If I had smaller breasts, it would be a more acceptable level of cleavage. Also, have I mentioned the back and shoulder pain?
I love this article great job 😃
I understand women feel pressured to look a certain way, but did it ever occur to women, who feel this pressure, that good, decent guys don't even factor breast size into the equation? I love ALL boobs equally. I know most men feel the same way. I get; it's an insecurity. Thing is, girls shouldn't feel insecure about this. What more can guys do to help girls understand most of us don't care how big they are? I really wish someone had an answer; not sure what more most of us guys could do.
Ten guys could say breast size doesn't matter, then three could say it does and we are going to me more focused on those three. Worried we'll encounter them
@been_waiting Ok, so would those 10 guys have to bound & gag those 3, just to keep a girl from feeling bad when she shouldn't? Or, instead, should she just ignore the 3 & pay attention to the 10 who love her just the way she is?
I actually never proposed something ridiculous. I'm just telling you why some people feel this way.
@been_waiting Of course not, as I was being a bit sarcastic in the first part of my comment to you. The second part was in seriousness. I just don't believe it wise for girls to worry about what a guy may or may not think of her. If he's investing a great deal of his time & affection in her, certainly she'd know he cares for all of her. & anyone who would maliciously contribute to another's insecurity simply isn't worth the time of day.
A lot of people get in relationships with people and then criticize their bodies and people are understandably afraid of that
@been_waiting Understandable, though that speaks more of the critic than the criticised.
It doesn't make a guy less decent or good if he prefers bigger breasts. That's his preferences and that's fine. He isn't a monster for it. There is like a "GaG reflex" as I call it, that if let's say I complain about my small boobs, all of a sudden everyone thinks small boobs are the best thing in the world and prefer them. Cool. So then we go out with this newfound confidence only to see it isn't really like that in real life. I can honestly say that no guy I've ever met, be it friend, co-worker, relative, acquaintance, etc. ever had a preference for small boobs. NONE. Yet here on GaG, most men supposedly do? IRL it's just either a, "I like all boobs, no preference" or b. "I do love big boobs, but I would rather be with you cuz I like your personality" Maybe I am just petty as fuck, but that seems like the guy's settling! It SUCKS to feel that your partner is settling. Like he secretly wishes they were bigger. Your body is only tolerated, not truly desired.
So as petty as this sounds, I know for me, I will only date guys who prefer small boobs. Not that supposedly "don't care", not the ones that "I prefer bigger, but I like you so much I can look past that." It's ridiculous, it's shallow, it's vain, it's horrible, I am a monster. But I don't wanna feel like the guy is settling. I don't wanna feel like he HAS to accept my body but secretly wishes they were bigger. I don't wanna feel like he's just tolerating or putting up with it cuz he's with me. I wanna feel truly desired. This is why I don't really like dating. I get so damn insecure. Now if only there were any guys IRL that actually preferred smaller boobs, along with my many other preferences, then it'd be awesome though unlikely. Also, breasts make females look more feminine. They do. There is nothing guys can do to change small tit girls (or any girl's) insecurities, it's up to the individual.
@BuchitaBuchys Replace breast with penis, along with the appropriate wording throughout, & you would truly understand why a lot of guys have penis insecurity. Difference is there ARE guys who genuinely prefer smaller breast, & guys who say they don't care actually mean it. The same can't be said to guys who don't have big dicks. As for guys who actually don't have a preference (aka, simply like all boobs, big & small), like myself, understand something: I. Don't. Settle. Big tits may be what you consider to be a mark of femininity, but not to me. Personally, I love a great butt on a woman, but even then it's a minor preference. And still, a good butt isn't the mark of femininity to me. Femininity is how you move, sound, smell. It's whether or not you actually work what you got & take care of yourself. If you catch my interest, are overall attractive to me, & can have a conversation on a wide range of topics, I'm going to be interested. Just my perspective.
You are being ignorant. Cuz there ARE women who genuinely prefer men with smaller penises as well. I'm one of them. 4 or so inches are my preference. *GASP! WHAT? Yea, I know. I have my reasons, I prefer dicks on the smaller side. I had an 8+ inch, hell no. I do not prefer them at all. Even 6 inches seems a little bit much for me. I know a few other women who prefer on the smaller side as well. Most prefer average, and yea there are some who prefer BigDickDaddies. I kinda hate when people say "No woman wants a man with a small dick." Really? Have you asked every woman in the world? I'm a woman and I like them small. Or do I not count as a woman cuz I have small boobs? I don't believe it. When guys say they like all sizes, I feel like he's settling if he goes for smaller. Cuz if he had the choice between small and big, it'd most likely be big he'd choose.
@BuchitaBuchys It was ignorant of me to say, & guys who don't have a big penis likely wouldn't believe you, just like you don't believe it when I say there are guys who prefer small breast, or genuinely don't have a preference for breast size. That's really the point to these insecurities: who or what to believe, while being truly comfortable in your own skin. I'll say this again: I Don't Settle. You example at the end was a situation I was in 13 months ago. I choice my GF over the girl who thought having huge boobs was everything. I never once, & still don't, feel like I settled. It's not up to guys to decide if a girl is settling, & vice versa. I didn't settle for my GF, in ANY aspect, nor did she settle for me. Give guys a break; some of us do mean what we say.
Yea there are some guys who prefer smaller, but I know personally I've never encountered a single one. Just like small penis dudes probably not have either. And I don't know. I'm stubborn as fuck lol So I'm not convinced. If there were identical twins. They were both pretty, both nice, both smart, both wanted a shot with you, etc. They both dressed nicely (however you define nice). Only difference is that one has nice small boobs, and the other has nice big boobs. 9.9/10 the guys would choose the one with bigger boobs. If not, they'd say "I would be afraid she'd reject me, so I'll go for the smaller boobs" or "She's out of my league, I'll go for smaller boobs." Sounds like big tits was first choice, but willing to settle for small tits just cuz they may be afraid big boob girl would reject them.
I'm a size c, I used to be dd whenever I was heavier and always and still get harassed because of my boobs. All honesty though, I don't care about my size.
I am an A-cup, and I have never felt insecure about my body. I enjoy having small breasts because I never had any of the problems that come with having large breasts. A side benefit is that guys eventually look at my eyes.
Basically it is very complex and probably impossible for any girl over a 36B or any man to understand. Ok maybe a guy with a very small penis.
God or nature has forced us to all crave sex, so I basically starve for affection, companionship and sex like food.
My mind doesn’t want to put myself in a situation to get hurt, I don’t want to get naked in front of a guy and have him disappointed even for a second whether he says anything to me or just thinks it. That is heartbreaking no woman can deny that.
Then I deprive myself of sex and male affection, this makes me sad, but I want to be fully desired not excepted for a flaw, for my pretty face or nice personality. I never want a man to look at me and be disappointed or I don’t want to be there.
So ya it sucks.
men lie too, i was in a relationship and he lied for 7 years saying he liked small, one drunk afternoon he was going off on how id be hotter with bigger... we broke up 2 years later for different reasons... but my sex life will remained damaged for ever at this point. I've been single for a year, i push men away i just dont trust them... implants are worse men say so im stuck here in this body I've been given unable to love and be loved every woman's dream taken away from me, in my one life.
@asker I think for you, the problem you described it becomes a individual thing now Dont let one man dictate for all other men... Some men will prefer bigger boobs some men don't care... BUt i can tell you for sure, most men including myself don't really care that much. Sometimes what happens after 7 years is that you start to crave/desire something you don't have right, now, in your case it became bigger boobs because you didn't have them BUT thats ok, you have to look at is as the right guy for you, will be the one that is in that perspective and wants you for you... For example you can one day meet a guy who's been with a girl with big boobs and now sort of wants a slender body with smaller boobs, all of a sudden he's the perfect guy for YOU its all comes down to life experiences, perspective and how that is reflected up the timing you meet someone IV seen this a lot, best advice try and give other men a clean slate. Don't let past experiences dictate future ones
EXACTLY. People say "Oh, but Buchita, you have a cute face that makes up for not having boobs." How the hell does that make me feel better? So he's settling. He's settling and secretly wishes they were bigger. It sucks when you don't feel fully wanted and accepted, just tolerated. Or if the guy himself says "Big boobs are a plus." So what are my small boobs? A minus? I'm picky as fuck. So now I will only date men who have a preference for small boobs. Not guys who say "I usually like D cups, but I like you so much I'd rather be with you/" Not even guys that say "don't care" or say "any size is fine". Call me selfish, stupid, picky, etc. But I don't like the feeling of a guy secretly wishing they were bigger. Or him not truly being satisfied with my body. Everyone wants to feel desired by their partner. Dammit, unfortunately, it's tough to find guys who do prefer smaller. :/ I understand how you feel. .
yes see we get each other, awesome. I don't know how so many girls don't care and don't realize this. I'm picky too im not having anything to do with any guy who ist 100% into me. I will wait years for one, years. lol
I'm sorry to hear that and what happen. Don't be upset, my story is kind of different though. My ex lied to me, and cheated on me, told me to go to hell and so much more. I used to be really insecure about my body and I used to beat myself up a lot but I don't do that anymore. I used to limit myself, compare myself to other girls but no I don't do that anymore it wasn't good for me.
My boobs don't affect my self esteem I'm a B cup. I really don't care. all my friends have boobs bigger then mine but its really not a problem. because...
Easier to run
Easier to walk
I can sit leaning on the table
When I bend to tie my shoes my boobs don't show (depends on type of shirt)
Most guys in my school don't care about boob size
Unlike the 'penis size arguement', the vast majority of men truly could not care even a tiny bit less how big or small a womans breasts are. It plays no part in determining if we are interested in her on any level. Do we like them? of course we do. They are a great 'bonus' if they are there. fun to play with, But our primary interest from a sexual standpoint is what is between her legs, and her mouth. From a relationship standpoint, her brain. even with big tits they play no part in how a woman is as a person, an such a tiny part in sex that even with absolutely none, it means nothing.
if only that could be said about penis size...
B cup here. Boobs have never really been a concern for me. I'm glad they aren't bigger and I'm confident in my body
You couldn't have said it better. I like to think that I'm way past my dark thoughts about wanting bigger breasts, but there are still days that I wish they were. I see that many guys don't really care about breasts size, but the ones around me do. :(
i think everyone are born with the shape that suit their body :3, keep it up girls!
The good thing about having B cups is that I don't have to worry about them popping out, and I can practically wear whatever I want and not be immodest. I don't attract unwanted attention, and guys will be more interested in my face and smile rather than my body.
I used to be insecure about my A cup breasts, but then I grew to realize that the only true advantage big tits posses is the acceptance of society.. Small breasts can produce just as much milk as big ones, so the reason they happen to be more admired isn't really a matter of natural selection. It's only society that's decided to deem them "sexier". As a matter of fact, bigger breasts are less evolutionary advantageous because they can be disabling, depending on the woman. This new understanding has caused me to be most grateful. How many female athletes do you see with big breasts? As a naturally active athletic type, I'd hate to feel weighed down by my boobs.
I have a really small breast size. Like, I don't think I'm even able to be considered any "cup" size or anything. I wear A Cup bras, and I've pretty much been the same size since high school. I was always picked on in school because of my boob size. They always called me a boy, asked where my boobs were and people honestly thought I was a boy sometimes!! I wish not to have double d sized boobs, but at least a B!! That's all I want, at least boobs slightly bigger than my normal size. The only reason I'm happy with the size I have now is because it makes it easier to cosplay characters with flatter chests without having to wear a binder.
I like your post. I used to be self concious about them being too big when I was younger, but in reality when I looked back they were really pretty normal. I just learned to accept. That's what we all gotta do :)
I'd choose to have smaller breasts any day. I'm tired of having to dig in the back at bra stores for the only bra bigger than a C cup and having it turn out to be a boring nude one. I also hate the constant back pain because of them. Big boobs are overrated.
Breasts are like penises: those who wear them care too much, to the point of allowing them to define who they are, while the opposite sex doesn't even really care about it.
It's your body, you have to accept how it is, and what matters is what's inside your head, so you shouldn't let what's outside, define what's inside.
Actually most guys think too big is a turn off, it makes us feel ugly. On p*rn yeah they like it. But you ever notice how the girls with boyfriends are flat chested? Most guys prefer small boobs. Im a 34hh. And im very self conscious.
All guys have different preferences, just like all girls. Some like big, some like small, some don't mind. There is no one type of body guys love. But most guys (most people) do love confidence, and whatever your body shape or size, you can feel confident. It takes time, but it can happen.
The article was literally about us girls loving ourselves for who we are and not what guys think. That being said, if guys like what they see, they will come. No need for us to accommodate them :)
So exclude girls with big boobs? Hey, we have issues with confidence as well. People don't know, I'd do anything to be a 34b. I could only dream.
I seriously hate having big boobs. I have to wear tops sizes 14-16 because they're so big... I weigh 10 stone, I should be wearing size 10 tops not two to three sizes bigger. I would honestly pick smaller boobs any day, they're more perkier and pretty and also easier to run with.
I'm with you here. I have a lot of friends telling me they wish they had big boobs like me, my answer is always no you don't. Big boobs are actually painful.