Breastfeeding fantasy?

I have the fantasy of someday drinking breast milk from a sexual partner. Is this weird or is it a somewhat normal fantasy? I think it's a very understandable fantasy however it appears that many people don't have that desire and even think it's gross. Why?
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  • It isn't gross. To be honest I didn't think about it until I had a child. One time we went to a reunion and had to take a long plane ride that was delayed. I was nursing our infant son at the time but didn't want to on the plane so I pumped a bunch of milk to bring. Then when we got there the baby hadn't nursed in a long time because of the bottles so I was hugely engorged. My husband offered to relieve the tension by sucking on my breasts. It started as an innocent offer for a problem and then when he was doing it I started to get aroused and he did too. He got really aroused. The baby was with family, so we were alone and we had the most incredible sex. IT was just soooo relaxing and at a different level. Ever since then, even though I am not lactating any more, we sill use breast sucking as a big part of our sex life. I have large breasts and he has always been a breast man so maybe that is part of it, but no... long story short, it is fine and it is not gross.

  • I think it's natural. Seems like a form of attraction aligned with a womans breast, its only natural to like it I think. I know if happens for some couples, after a female has a baby, her breast leak the breastmilk and I know for sure that men are curious about it, and try it, lol. Don't worry it's not so weird.

    Now if you exclusively want to just bang a girl just because she is leaking breastmilk..then you need to chill out. I'd say it would be healthier mentally to desire that from someone that you have commited to and conceived your child with.

    Thats just my silly opinion though. :-)

    • I like your silly opinion. Thank you for the reassuring stuff.

    • Thanx, & You're Welcome

  • i'm guessing you have mommy issues. while men do base their sexual desires on the ''childbirth'' part of women (breasts,hips) you are taking it too far,to the point of you literally wanting to be a baby-well I simply can't even process that. but,people have fantasies that are outside that spectrum of normality all the time-so,it's fine,really.

    • I don't want to be a baby. I just think it can be a sexual activity.

    • i'm not saying that you KNOW you want to be a baby,it's more of a subconscious thing. but-i'm not a therapist,i'm a 16 year old with an internet connection.

    • well if you want to analyze subconscious desires I'll throw in my own hypothesis. Instead of fantasizing of being a baby I view it more as an exercise of dominating over someone else's body. It's like "yo lady your my milk machine" and "boom see I'm taking the milk straight out of your body right now, like a milk machine". All about domination and objectification and stuff

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  • I don't see the big deal...At All...my wife offered to let me taste her milk...an offer that I accepted...it did not do anything for me...however...those of you who know me will realize I am not a boob man...and I would have to think that, if I was a boob man, that this would really light my fire..(:(:(:

  • I think it's hot.

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  • im breastfeeding my baby, my boyfriend has tried the milk, heck so have I nothing weird about it. we've drank each others other bodily fluids, why not the milk.

    • Thank you for a reassuring answer.

  • I have heard of people having that fantasy before...but personally I think it's odd. I am currently breastfeeding a baby ...and if my husband wanted to do that, ick!

    • i personally would not want to breastfeed at the same time as a baby. That would make me feel like a baby or something, in my thoughts I'm thinking of doing that kind of stuff before pregnancy

  • https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=nyiSg_iNLSI



    can't be that weird if iron & wine sings about it :P

    • lmao. just read over these answers, and I'm sorry about all the closed-mindedness. I'm not really into your fantasy, but I can see how that SHOULD be more acceptable than something like anal. anal, technically, is pretty nasty and way more dangerous than drinking milk. so I understand your bewilderment.

    • haha well thank you for some reassuring stuff. I guess I can a little why some people think it's weird but overally I think it would be kind of cool. Oh well, maybe I might change my mind when I grow older and actually have an opportunity to try out sexual stuff. Until then all I have is my imagination...

    • U pretty kool..where the hell did you come from? O.O

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  • I'm pregnant now and I want my fiancé to try it lol not sure why...

  • Your desires are totally natural. Im currently pregnant and

    • Sorry it didn't let me finish. Its totally normal. Im currently pregnant and my husband is very excited to be able to drink my milk. And in regards to the dominating, i think its just as normal and pretty hot when my husband pins me down and sucks on my breast. He doesn't have mommy issues, he just loves breasts and thinks its super cool that I'll be able to provide 100% of our childs vital nutrients through my breast milk.

    • Also, you and my husband aren't the only ones. There's a shit ton of porn out there all about milking women.

  • A lot of people have that fantasy. I'm not even sure I would call it a fantasy. I think all adults should try it at least once. If anything it's food.. made for humans.

    • ... and by humans (women I mean)

  • it is nothing different than sucking breast of your sex partner.

  • I think it's disgusting. Sorry, but it's just weird.

    • ah well I can't comprehend why people would think it's disgusting or weird. I think anal sex is disgusting but people seem to accept that more widely much to my bewilderment. I guess I'll just have to not care about what some people think. Sexual desires often go off the deep end in our imaginations anyway

    • That milk is meant for a baby, not some guy's sick fantasy. First of all, how is drinking milk even sexy?

    • Drinking milk is sexy because I view it as another form of using and dominating someone else's body. The woman goes through all this trouble of making nutritious milk and I'm the dominating guy figure who walks in and takes it from her. she doees all the work and I get all the benefit, it makes me feel in control and I get to touch her breasts through the process. I don't know it just feels sexy in my imagination. Breasts have to play some role in sex other than just being looked at, right?

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  • I thought you could could get aids :0