Bruise during sex?

have you ever got a bruise by having sex? me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday and it was really rough. when I woke up I noticed there was a huge bruise on my hip where he was holding me. is this a problem and should I tell him about it? he wasn't hurting me during sex but now it hurts so bad.
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Its normal for that to happen if you have rough sex. Especially if its doggy style and he's got a powerful man grip on your hips! lol

    Bruises are normal, I'm guessing you bruise a little easily? Next time you guys are having sex let him know not to be so rough.

    And yeah show him the bruise but let him know how good the sex felt so he doesn't feel embarrassed about it. and Maybe have sex with him again right after? lol

    You're good, its okay to be scared, bruises are kinda weird huh? :P

    • Lol yeah I bruise kinda easy and he always hold me tight during sex so I can't move =) thanks.

    • Sounds like you two have an awesome time together :P And yes, no problem ;)

    • I couldn't say it any better so I'll agree and +1

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes I've been bruised many a time during sex... LOL

    It happens! You get caught up in the moment and the excitement and of course he doesn't mean to do it, its like when a girl digs her nails into a guy's back when she's coming and leaves scratches. I always just pick on my Boyfriend when I notice the bruises, saying something like "wow you must have been enjoying it!". Don't make him feel bad or anything, maybe just tell him to watch out next time and don't be so rough!

  • OMG I get bruises all the time, some on my hips some on my wrists some on my back... It's kind of embarrassing sometimes. But I like wild sex so I guess that's what I get, the guy is never hurting me I'm just sensitive and if he was hurting me I would have said something right away. so I wouldn't worry and don't bring it up unless you want to show him that you like it, I know sometimes I like the bruises it means that it was really good, but I know I'm strange

  • Yes, I have. I don't notice it when we are in the middle of the sex, but when I wake up after I notice. And guys don't mean to give you bruises during sex, there's so much going on and they are so tense that they don't realize what they are doing and how hard they are holding you.

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