Bulimia and blow jobs?

This is the first time I've been sexually active. I've given my boyfriend a few blow jobs. Last time I gagged quite a few times and had to stop for a second. He still came but I felt like I did bad. How would you feel if you're gf told you she USED TO BE bulimic and that's why she gags? I want to take more but I'm afraid I may puke on him? But I believe I could get better over time. I want to tell him but I'm afraid he will be disgusted and/or look at me different. What would your reaction be?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you feel it is really a problem you need to discuss it with him. Otherwise he may be second guessing why your having problems giving him a blowjob. He may feel something is wrong on his part. If your close enough to have his man parts in your mouth your close enough to discuss important issues. he may have a problem coming to grips with Bulimia, its a difficult subject to address and I'm sure very personal to you. Be open and honest. Also don't feel you have to cram that thing down your throat. The head is the most sensitive part, use your hands for the rest of the shaft. There is really no such thing as a bad BJ, although some are better than others. If you make him cum it worked.

  • No need to take more than you are comfortable with.
    No need to discuss the bulimia.
    Just go slow when blowing, you are good enough now to make him cum, good job on completion
    Most girls will gag on occasion, it is hard to breathe with your mouth full.
    Do not puke , it will really spoil the moment.
    If you really want to take more, ask him if he might like it, and that you would like to try.
    That way , gagging is expected, and will be tolerated.
    Explore techniques on the net on how to deep throat.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Everybody gays sometimes and if you do throw up it won't be food. It'll be saliva and it makes a mess but it just makes it "sloppy head" which a lot of men like.

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  • tell him straight up. as long as he's getting head im sure he would be happy to work out any necessary kinks in the chain so to speak.

  • Just do the head of the d*** it's and don't deep throat. Plus if your doing it just to make him happy try swallowing...

    • Thanks for the advice and i swallowed each time lol.

    • Your welcome. Your my type of girl :-)

  • I would tell you that you don't have to deep throat me. I wouldn't be disgusted or anything.

    • Thank you for your comment!

  • please don't puke that'll be traumatizing lol

    • Haha that's what I'm afraid of. Even though I haven't been that way for years my body still has a hard time keeping food down. Its something I can't control. Believe me I dont wanna puke on him lol!

    • Just explain to him your issue and hopefully he understands and just try keeping da deep throating to a minimum. BJs don't necessarily mean shoving da penis down da throat.

  • just do it in the bathroom so it won't be messy