By age 25 ... sex life of women?

How many girls, by age 25, have honestly had few enough partners where you could only count them on one hand i don't think I know any? but I know plenty of guys in that boat. thoughts>?
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  • I have two friends (ages 23 and 24) that are athletic, attractive, successful, still virgins, and the best friends I could ever ask for. One has a job abroad, another is in a top twenty law school. They believe in the whole lifelong meaningful relationship thing, and their priorities are elsewhere at the moment, so they aren't exactly looking, though lots of guys have tried.

    I'm not so awesome as they are. I'm 22 and I've had sex with three people, although only one of those persons was within the last ten years, in the only relationship I've ever had (which was in high school). Do the math and you can come to the obvious conclusion I didn't choose the first two, so I like to think they don't really count. Four years ago when I graduated high school I made the decision that before I allow a sexual relationship of any kind again, I'd need to learn to better respect and be confident in myself and my own independence. Once I do that, I can look for someone meaningful to have in my life that I'd be willing to have a sexual relationship with.

    Both myself, and my two friends are still under the age of 25, but I like to think our individual partners will still be five or less on our 25th birthdays.

    • /nods thanks for your answer the same thing happened to me, which is more or less why ... As a *guy*... I value sex as something extremely intimate and personal, and why I passed up the chances for screwing around that I had in my life. I could only do it with someone that I have absolute love and respect for, and have no desire to share something that would mean that much to me with a cheap woman that's just slept around

  • Almost had sex with... 1... 2... 3... 4...

    1. my first boyfriend lasted 2 weeks and he was weird and wanted to kill his mom.

    2. A player got me really horny but then I decided that I did not love him hence I did not want to lose my virginity to a one night stand person

    3. Another one night stand with another player but this time I really wanted to have sex eventhough I had no feelings for the guy (25 and extremely horny) however he had a nonfunctional penis.

    4. My former boyfriend. Took off my clothes wanted him to have sex with me and then he started bitching about me not having experience and that he did not want to teach me so I dumped him because I did not want to share myself to a guy who has zero consideration and respect for me.

    Had sex with: 0

    Fell intense potential deep love attractions: 1... 2...

    I f***ed up on both... the first I followed to much and got rejected... with the second guy I played hard to get he saw through my immaturity and f***ed my best friend instead.

    :(

    Conclusion: 25 and single and a virgin and frustrated.

  • ME! I'm very happy with my boyfriend, and still like all my former boyfriends (as great friends), but I have yet to have sex. Actually, yes it's old fashioned, but I don't really have the desire to do it probably until I get married. Granted I was brought up that way, so that's a factor, but even so: without being a stickler or anything, I still prefer to just wait as long as possible. It's less complicated, and anyway dating's much more fun when you're actually out doing things! and not always going back to making out on the couch just because you're bored...though that's awesomee if done sparingly ;D

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'd say it's less than you'd think, I know a good lot of girls who still haven't even had sex never mind slept around. Of course I do know the girls popular with guys (yet they are few) who will have had quite alot, but they aren't the dominant numbers, just the ones we hear about. Personally I would have to use more than one hand, although I'm still on less than ten. :P

  • Or to age range 30 for that fact. Its like finding a needle in a haystack. Not directing this to all girls but sh*t have some self F'n respect and show some to the men who have not had many partners. Ya dig.

    • I agree respect is earned. A lot of people seem to believe respect is a government entitlement program.

    • Yes for example you say you have only had a few partners and are clean and healthy but these sluts avoid that and rather.be with someone who been with a sh*t load of girls and don't give a sh*t about them and probably had stds. To those whores out there F-U.

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  • um still a virgin so think twice before saying I don't think any.

  • my honest thoughts: women choose to be that way.

    guys do not.

    • Some of us do.

  • I'm 27, had over forty guys in my life time -- yes, blame my crazy insatiable red hair for it if you must -- though many a guy I had sex with repeatedly was either a sex buddy or a boyfriend.

    • Slut!^

    • Yes, I am, dark. I've no shame in that, my daddy taught me well by ignoring my sexuality and not restraining me like your daddy did your mother -- is that why she's such a bitch, I'm sure? Yeah, I wasn't taught to be a lady, I was taught to be free, just let myself go. Call that a slut if you must. I don't wear heels, I don't need a guy to open doors for me or pay me for sex with dinner or a beer, unlike the spoiled city bitches you live around with. ^ <<< that's my middle finger at you, baby

    • My dad doesn't restrain my mother. I'm sure you're going to be a terrible mother. And I'm sure most guys will have a hard time trusting you in a relationship. I bet your not capable of staying faithful in a monogamous relationship.

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  • me.

  • I can't even count on one hand, because I still am one unfortunately.