C-section scar...does it freak a guy out?

[Anonymous]

I am divorced and getting back into dating. I have twins, who were born via C-section. What I'm wondering is, the first time I sleep with someone, is my C-section scar going to freak him out? I am lucky enough not to have any stretch marks and am in great shape. But, I am going to be a little apprehensive about someone seeing that, particularly, if he doesn't have children himself. Of course, there isn't a thing I can do about it...but I want to have an idea of what to expect.

[Phoenix1991]

i don't think that will bother man, now you shouldn't tell him as soon as you met him either. If you were like " Hey my name is Jessica, and I have a C-section Scar." Don't feel discouraged, I mean when you are starting to have a good or decent chemistry with a guy your starting to like, then you tell him over time and No it won't bother him when you two hook up either. He will understand just go along with the flow. =) have fun and good luck out there!

[loveisgentle]

i once fell for a woman whohas a lot of stretch marks...she was a wonderful woman and I think the scars are her labour of love...not to be looked down but cherished and admired

motherhood is about sacrifice, generosity and love...if a man truly loves you, he would have valued your sacrifice.

if anything, those marks or scars are sexy!

anyway try some ointment to reduce the scars...i think Medena or something...

[Minxxe]

anyone who doesn't want to accept we all have battle scars from life isn't worth dating. a real man will not mind a real woman with a real woman's body.

[cjrwars]

:( best of luck! Lingerie with the girdles would probably cover it up.

[MrOracle]

No... at least, not as much as the KIDS themselves will freak out many guys. LOL.

The scar really isn't an issue.

[kheserthorpe]

It would be interesting to hear from single guys.

I'm married, my wife had 3 c-sections. She has very bad stretch marks. The c-section scar is a non issue.

Honestly, a single scar shouldn't be that big a deal to people if you are generally in good shape.

[Lupianwolf]

I don't think it's appealing but, some people are not gonna care more than others

I would think the children thing is more important than a scar

[taster]

no worries mate...

[andreasderjuengere]

Scars look better than tattoos. Some people may have problems with it - I don't.

[big311]

I'm a married guy, one kid, wife has a c-section scar and stretchmarks. Personally, I love them! I think they're sexy. I've always thought they were sexy, even before she had them. Scars are such a deep and personal thing that they make the individual that much more attractive. Just my two cents.

[Anonymous]

I don't think this is an issue... my partner has been through a cesearean too.

It depends on who you're dating. A young, single guy might have all these high expectations. But then, if he's willing to accept your twins, then surely the scar isn't a big thing?

A divorced/to-be-divorced man has gone through all this, and at his age probably has kids of his own. He knows what it means when things don't work, and will probably be trying harder to make it work!

[Anonymous]

I'd rather see a scar than not, if you catch my drift.

[Asker]

Yep, think so. I'm going to assume you've had sex with a woman who's given birth. However, I have been told (by women only) that once things...uh, return to normal, even sex with a woman who's had a vaginal delivery feels as tight as before. Me, personally...not change, of course, so I wouldn't know. Would you disagree?

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't return to 'tight as before'.