Can a dick be too big?

Question

So I was making out with my boyfriend and he started grinding on me and things led to other things and I started massaging his dick through his pants and he is MASSIVE! This is the first dick I've ever seen irl so I have nothing to compare it to, but it was as thick as a banana and about 8 inches long... When I masturbate, I can only use one finger... Two hurts and 3 is agony no matter how many times I try to use 2... How could we have sex without it hurting?

Minxxie · Accepted Answer

Have him go down on you for at least half an hour until you orgasm, after you orgasm grab a condom and get on top of him (so you can control the penetration) and if you are relaxed and really turned on sex should never hurt your vagina fill with blood and lengthens just like a penis does you just need to take your time with foreplay. And as for your hymen it should be fine as long as you go slow and are gentle, they are stretchy and usually if you are wet enough it will be slippery enough that it won't tear. Even if it does it only takes around 2 days to heal completely. And anyone who tells you that your hymen is "supposed" to break is an idiot. No skin is "supposed" to rip, and it doesn't magically vanish if it tears, its skin, skin heals. You have your hymen for life. Also just do other sexual things with him long before you try intercourse let him get to know your body, get on birth control, buy some condoms, get to know his body. make sure he makes your orgasm before you have sex with him. If he can't make you orgasm with his tongue or fingers, he doesn't deserve to have sex with you!

Gorgorello · Accepted Answer

Make sure you guys engage in lots of foreplay beforehand, especially fingering. You'll get wetter and your vagina will stretch/relax the more aroused you are. Also take it slow.

When I'm too tight at first and we don't feel like lots of foreplay, I'll lube him up, pull him inside and then we'll just lie there making out and wait a minute or two. It lets my vagina relax and stretch and I get wetter from the anticipation.

summiter · Accepted Answer

If you decide to have sex, after considering birth control, the key is to use a lot of foreplay and to take things very slow. You might want to be on top that way you can control the depth and the speed. Consider using lube... it works great.

An alternative plan might be to try a dildo first to get use to something inside you and to break your hymen if it is still intact. Your thoughts?

boboloy · Accepted Answer

you're certainly going to want to take it slow. make sure that you've been eaten out first, and probably have cum first so you're loose and worked up. then it's lube plus patience plus relaxation. you don't need to get the whole thing in either. communication is the key.

Thatweirdone_ · Answer

Lol you're under 18 so I don't get why you haven't learnt sex ed. Go slow lol  Let yourself stretch out  If you guys do decide to do it

orphan · Answer

of course it can be too big. i feel sorry for people who have a forearm in their pants. there's nothing like wailing your way to poundtown.

https://i63.tinypic.com/nd7gnb.jpg

there's documentaries on this guy Jonah Falcon (largest penis in the world). 13.5".

Jared____ · Answer

Yes of course

Zombie-Killa · Answer

A lot of women on here have porn addled brains And talk like they need a 12 inched at least lol

Dada999 · Answer

Well, you haven't seen many dicks so you probably think it's too big, and seriously, you only use one finger?

baldblls2 · Answer

Your pussy will form fit

khopson26 · Answer

Well, my ex used to bite my thumb till I got all the way in. Maybe try that? If it does hurt, it will only hurt for a minute. After that its allllll pleasure! Lol

Anonymous · Answer

Let him just do it as hard and fast for bout 10 mins straight it will turn from a innie to a outtie but my boyfriend is black and I am 18 white f

Anonymous · Answer

That sound like the ideal penis. Jealous of your boyfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

A Dick can never be terms as too long. The longer the better.

Anonymous · Answer

yeah it sucks, i actually have a pretty large penis, and at first i thought it was so cool, showing off, but then u try to be intimate and it is so hard, sometimes my ex girls did not enjoy it, use a lot of lube and go slow