I don't think his foot fetish is relate to that but? Try talking with him about it. Maybe he's got a medical condition? Maybe it's mental and his head just isn't in it? Only he can answer. If he doesn't know himself, then it's probably physical and he should maybe see a doctor? So many things can effect an erection, so so many things. From diet, to mental thoughts, to just plain physical and his body doing what it wants to on it's own lol. We can't say.
The thing works, it gets hard, sort of, and he's 25. I suggested to go see a doctor but I think he's afraid. How would be the best way to coax him to go? He hasn't told anyone and I'm his first girlfriend so any wrong move can I assume scar him for life if this hasn't already.
Maybe suggest going with him if he'd like the support? Or suggest a check up in general (ie, don't make it about his "problem"). Once he actually gets there, then he might feel more comfortable? But yeah, if he doesn't want to go, you may not be able to make him. Just talk with him more about it. Let him know that you are concerned, and care and support him.
I was the same way. Its a mental thing but also his testosterone levels. Get him into the gym.
Help him during foreplay. Caress his testicles graze the bottom while giving him head. Refrain from his anus.
what ended up working for you? Did you see a specialist for it?
Testosterone: cold exposure, gym/ exersize, sunlight. Also foods like eggs, fish oils, and d3 supplements. Four Hour Body by Tim Ferris has a portion labeled sex machine that details how to triple sex drive (really works, but also really intense, be prepared for plenty of sex lol).
No in all honesty i put up my own mental wall. There were times where my dick would perform but for the most part its being secure with myself. I have an average size dick it plays with my head. So that caused me to doubt but i learned there's more to sex than that. I also had doubts in my partner so make sure he knows you want him. Beyond that i know testosterone levels are crucial for sustaining an erection. So there's that too, and why i suggest he workout. Get his blood flowing.
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That doesn't sounds too normal to be honest. Sounds like you're guy maybe underperforming. You could always try enhancement pills or something like that.
If he has a foot fetish then he should be able to be kept turned on. But it usually takes physical penis contact in order to stay hard.
There might be something physically wrong with him. He might have to see a doctor.
Try with some good sucking
Dude what the heck one thing has to do with the other?
I don't think the feet are the problem.
He might have erectile dysfunction, or performance anxiety. Talk to a doc
It sounds like he has some control issues, but I doubt it had anything to do with his foot fetish.
He's probably gay. Anyway why would you want to be penetrated by a guy with a foot fetish?
Strange dude...
A man with a foot fetish is not a man and that's the end of it.
I’m a female and I have been dealing with this exact same problem. It’s very frustrating and I’ve been considering breaking it off because I simply cannot picture a happy and healthy future this way.
Maybe have him play with your feet while penetrating you? Seems a bit weird he can't stay hard though.
I tried that. As soon as concentration on feet brakes, so does the boner
And THIS is why women get tired of fetishes and fetishists...
@MlleCake This seems rather an extreme case though... I would have thought that for most, it would be something extra, a 'candy on top of ice cream' type of thing, rather than the single necessary thing they need to perform, which causes them to fail when it is removed.
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