Can a vagina be to strong?

Uhmm the guy I had sex with said that its hurts, When my vagina contracts while he I was inside.. before I came and stronger during the org. I also noticed that while fingering that I get really thight ( I meant really) when I get the contractions down there So is it possible to have a that much " strong" vagina? Did some guys had the same experience?
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This is not a problem for me, but i was curious about that i hurt him with my vagina. And it was not planned from my side, i just had my contractions and my orgasm, which hurts him
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  • If you have experienced pain or discomfort during penetration, you may be concerned your vagina is too small or too tight for sex. The truth is almost no vagina is too tight for sex. Sometimes, you have to prepare a bit more for penetration. In its un-aroused state, the vagina is three to four inches long. That might not seem long enough for some penises or sex toys. But when you are aroused, your vagina grows longer and wider. It also releases a natural lubricant. If you experience pain or difficulty with penetration, it may be a sign you were not adequately aroused. Additionally, pain during penetration may be a sign of a condition such as infection, injury, or congenital abnormality. The vagina is designed to have sex and birth a baby. Both events change the shape and tightness of the vagina. The vagina is designed to expand and elongate during arousal. When you are turned on, the upper portion of the vagina lengthens and pushes your cervix and uterus inside the body more. That way, the penis or sex toy does not hit the cervix during penetration and cause discomfort. Although, stimulating the cervix is pleasurable. The vagina also releases a natural lubricant so that when penetration occurs, it is not painful or difficult. If penetration begins too soon and vagina is not lubricated, you may experience pain. Adequate foreplay can help ensure you have enough natural lubricant. If that is still not enough, you can use a water-based lubricant. But these natural processes do not always mean sex is comfortable. 30 percent of women experience some pain during intercourse. Several conditions may affect how tight a vagina is. Most of these problems are minor and easily treated. These conditions include: Insufficient arousal or lubrication – I have explained. Infections, including sexually transmitted infections, do not change the shape or tightness of your vagina, but they can make sex more painful. An injury to your pelvis or your genitals may make sex painful. Wait until you’ve fully healed before engaging in sexual activity. Vaginismus causes involuntary contractions of your pelvic floor muscles. Before penetration, the condition causes the pelvic floor muscles to tighten so much that a penis or sex toy cannot enter. This condition may be caused by anxiety or fear. You know your own body best, so if something does not feel right during sex, stop. Find a solution that works for you, and try again.

    • Guy are hard and generally ready mentally for some difficulty for that thing. You were not ready for that sudden thing and that may have resulted in strong contraction. Have some more foreplay, get mentally ready for it and enjoy the ultimate things at the best. Your subconscious was not allowing him to penetrate - may be because of religious culture or fear of getting pregnant or some other unknown thing. find out the reason and enjoy him.

  • I've heard of women who hurt men by contracting on him while he was inside. I don't know but one ex felt pain once when we had sex because I was doing it on purpose to test my strength. You do not have to strangle it, so it's not avoidable, just stop if it hurts him. If he makes you mad you can just break it during sex, you're not going to jail.

    • lol the last sentence :D So im not the only one who experienced this, thanks for you answer

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  • I've never felt like the contractions were hurting before.

    One clinical theory for why you have contractions is that your body is literally trying to wring the cum out of the guy's cock, so it's normal to be tight and strong.

  • tightness won't hurt a dick. dryness or bending does.

    • i was enough wet and did not bend :D

    • i mean maybe your caginal tunnel isn't straight xD

    • lol :D

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  • That man is insane.

    • she may have unusually strong vagina, thus unlike other women that just provide pleasure to a man from their tightness, she hurts him or his dick is more sensitive than other men. Is a woman insane if the complains about a man hurting her or him too big or hitting her cervix? Didn't you say you felt male dominance is a culture thing, not biology? But yet it seems like you feel the penis can ravage the vagina and be too much and hurt it, but not the otherway around. If that's true, then how can society viewing male penetration as a dominant act as cultural? It sounds like bioligy if this is the case

  • Well yes. If you frequently use those muscles. This goes along with it, do you masterbate and how often?

  • I don’t think they are to strong they are amazing

  • It means you know how to move those muscles in the vagina and squeeze his penis and give him pain

    • Either your vagina is too tight or he has a big penis

    • yep i know that, but this happened not intentionally

    • wouldn't it be more than tightness though? Tightness is a "snug grip" whereas strong is compressing. It's like someone giving a "tight hug" which can feel tight, maybe uncomfortable vs someone giving another person a bearhug, which is compression and more than just tightness, thus a person would feel pain from that as a result. Her pussy is maybe giving his dick a "bearhug?" ha

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  • Personally I think those contractions are awesome!