Can a virgin girl finger herself?

Im a virgin and I'm not trying hard but my finger doesn't go in much
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Do u need to break my hymen by myself? And does it hurt?
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Do I need*
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It is better to condition yourself for sex rather than leaving it to the clumsy efforts of a guy. And there are better ways to go than fingers.

    A first step would be to use one of these with plenty of lotion or lube. It has a good shape, smooth surface and you don't have to hide it.
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    Once the first one is comfortable, you can graduate to one of these and still stay off the radar.
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    And then there's these:
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    Work your way up slowly.

  • Yeah you can and you probably should to get to know your body. I've been with virgins and it can be a bit tight but you should use lube and just relax and enjoy feeling yourself down there. Or have a nice warm bath with some scented candles and start by rubbing yourself in the bath and work your finger slowly upward. As your body gets used to it you'll be able to use 2 fingers.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Um.

    Probably not.

    "Popping the cherry" is usually considered breaking the hymen, which is usually done the first time you have sex.

    However, losing your virginity can be determined how you want it. Some people believe putting a tampon in is considered making yourself no longer a virgin. Others believe you have to be taken by a man.

    I think it's the first time you have sex, myself.

    So, no, I don't think you'd no longer be a virgin. You'd just be a girl making herself happy.

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    • lmao she's not asking if she'd no longer be considered a virgin, she's asking if it's physically possible to put a finger inside herself.

  • It only works when you're really horny /turned on. If it's too dry and tight you can't even fit a tampon in there. The hymen is also kinda far up a person like me with tiny fingers I don't think it would completely reach, if that's what you're worried about.

  • This used to happen to me, I couldn't even fit one finger in. You just have to work slowly and over time it will become more comfortable.

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  • Of course you can still finger yourself, regardless of whether or not you're a virgin.

    • regarding the update, the hymen is never 'broken'. It's never entirely covering your vaginal canal, and has a cut in it that only stretches whenever something is inserted. As long as you go slowly and all, it shouldn't be too bad. I never had any pain specifically related to the hymen.

  • Yeah you should be able to.. relax. Don't tighten up the muscles down there as that is what is likely causing you to not be able to take it in.

  • It really depends on the girl. I'm not a virgin and I can hardly get more than one finger in myself.

  • Of course. The Claris is outside the vaginae chest rub that

  • Yes you can.

  • Yeppers. I'm a virgin and I can typically fit 2, sometimes 3 fingers.

    • Did it hurt for the first time? Did you break your hymen?

    • Can't recall feeling any pain.

    • Oh that's good

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  • im pretty sure that female individual is physically capable of doing so.

  • I hate it, it has never been pleasurable for me.

  • Yes, at least I could but I don't like it because it doesn't give good vibrations nor arouses me.
    And this has nothing to do with breaking your hymen. I presume that is not possible.

  • Are you asking if you should? Do you want to? Go ahead, it's your body.

  • no, the virgin laws say you'll get time in jail.

  • Get a dildo baby and play away lol plus you don't have to worry if he doesn't call in the morning 😂👈🏻

  • i don't think you need to break the hymen you just use lubes and push gently

  • Absolutely Not you will go to jail if you touch yourself.