Can amazing sex win a man's heart?

[Anonymous]

We are constantly told that amazing sex will win a man's heart. Is this true or false?

[TexMex]

This is so incredibly false, foreplay is the key to a mans heart I joke I joke. Anyways if your relationship is based on sex there really isn't a relationship, your just f*** buddies at that point and he will drift when he finds something better. I see questions like this and I want to scream STOP READING COSMO! I dispise magazines that are written by gay men and women and claim to know all the secrets that every guy in the world wants and that if you bite my ear lobe while your riding me I am going to marry sorry cosmo it doesn't work that way. sorry got off topic there but I must say just try talking to him make a couple drinks sit down on the couch while he's watching the game and ask him what the score is or whos winning or try to learn, my fiancee is learning everything she can about nascar and hockey because I watch nascar every weekend and play hockey year round so she wants to know. put that extra effort out there and you shall surely see him come around with his heart in his hands for you to care for.

[angel-of-death]

That is a shallow stereotypical view of men! I don't like how girls think men are in it just for sex. because its just not true. Sex is good yehh. but soo is playing fifa on ps3 with the guys. doesn't exactly win your heart though. If you believe that you are fighting a losing battle. Men are human beings. Humans have feelings and therefore men have feelings and sex is just sex without love. And love can only be achieved through a special connection with someone. when that person means more to you than any other. sooo its just a load of *£&$&^"*& and a bit of a stupid question really and if you have to win a mans heart then there's clearly no point continuing with the relationship :)

[pixiegirl]

if you want a long lasting relationship and win a mans heart then you have to be with them for a great deal of time and actually be in a relationship but that also means that you have to have great sex because without the sex I'm sure they will look for another women to go to for it and eventually breaking up with you so it is very important for great sex because really I think that's all that men think about SEX

[grace86]

Nothing can "win" a mans heart. A man will just fall in love with you and sex is only a minor (yes, essential) part of that.

Sex can be great but I don't think it's the way to a man's heart. It's certainly the way to get the guy to stay with you in the short-term though, what happens after that it's purely coincidental to the sex.

[Anonymous]

I don't know if it won his heart, but my boyfriend told me he'd never break up with a girl who gave as good blow jobs as I did. I've gotten really good, though. I can deep throat while he's cumming and look him in the eye at the same time. He knows he won't find that anywhere else.

[gravygirl]

I think it's possible. I mean not if nothing else in the relationship works, but if everything else is at least okay then yeah, I think great sex can win a man's heart. I know I feel that my boyfriend and I got a lot closer through sex.

[ilovelegs]

I'd say it's definitely false!

[drstms]

Actually, food is a better weapon for winning a man's heart, though sex might help. The reality is that the physical stuff might help find a chink in the armor around his heart, but being vulnerable and willing to risk loving a man, listening to, and validating, him, are the most powerful tools to getting inside the soul of a man.

[EBs123]

I think it can keep a man coming back for more, but I don't think it can win his heart. Men can have sex without emotion a lot easier than most women.

[Xenith]

It is a nice bonus, but it certainly shouldn't be the foundation of the relationship. (love, not sex :P)

[John-Bee]

If he is really in love with you than it's like the cherry (no pun intended) on the ice cream sunday.

[twinkletoes]

I don't think so, that's pretty shallow.

[BigT69694321]

Sure Sex will win his heart and hell stick around for a while but you must ask yourself afterwards if you took sex away from him will he stay with you.There's a lot more to a relationship than sex.