Can any girl pose a big enough argument to change my mind?

[dtaylor31906]

i been reading all these questions about mean masturbating to porn and I wonder why so many girl are against it can anyone give me one good reason that we should be denied that right (I'm mainly talking to all the girls against it)

[Anonymous]

girls don't like it because its different for them...they think that if you watch porn that yout hink the women on there are better than them and youd rather have sex with them...when in reality sure maybe some women in porn youd love to pound out, but number one theya re gross and ahve slpeth with many many men. number 2 we're just doing it for a release, number 3 hell I do it and watch for new ideas - spices up my sex life...

my recommendation - if you get a gf, WATCH IT WITH HER, this will make her feel a little more easy on teh subject and you both will most likely get turned on and it could give you some new sexual ideas...it should be fun to watch with your girlfriend, hell when I did it it always led to sex...so much fun lol

girls just ahve a different viewpoint on it and don't realize we do it for a release, not taht they can't please us, but sex is on our mind a lot more than them, it just helps control our other "brain" lol

[dtaylor31906]

Dude this really wasn't I promblem I have that need solving I was just bored and I want to see if I can make any girl change their mind on the issue help out their boyfriend but thanks for answering

[1_True_Love]

Dude I wouldn't want to watch pron with my boyfriend, if he wanted to watch it that's fine I guess but he'd have to do it when I'm not in the room

[Opinion Owner]

Lol true love you wouldn't be masturbating together, just comin up with ideas

[KarKingJack]

THATS SOMEONES DAUGHTERRRR

Actually, I think Pornography is one of the less appreciated popular art forms. I mean, people have sex to music, make out during movies, and whack off to p*rn. To me, the best art has a lurid side. I don't really watch p*rn, though. Nor do I have sex to music, actually. But I dig that that goes on.

Anyway, I reckon personally that the anti-porn thing is just a prudish spiral of jealousy. I mean, whatever happened to the sixtieeeesssssss.

[peace-love-couture]

Guys use porn to masturbate,it's unrealistic and immature for any girl to expect a guy to not masturbate.I'm a female and I even watch porn to masturbate,I'm actually very visual,I'm not one of those chicks who can read erotic stories and get in the mood.I need visuals,I need voices and sounds.Porn is made for entertainment,not to make people feel bad.

I can see how ti makes some chicks feel bad,doesn't mean it makes me feel bad,but it can make some girls feel as though they are inadequate,as though the guy is bored with their sex life and some even go as far as to,hahaha,call it cheating,but to each their own.

Masturbation is healthy and normal,whether male or female.Who knows your body better than yourself,and sometimes it's good to have some alone time and handle your business yourself and your partner can't always be by your side 24/7,but your hands are.

[saphirasilverwings]

In general, I don't have a problem with it. A lot of guys (and girls) seem to manage to look at porn without having any negative effects. However, it CAN be a problem if he becomes addicted to it (porn is actually an addictive material and some people are more easily addicted to things than others), if he takes time away from the relationship because of it or gives less attention to his significant other because of it, or if he compares his significant other to people in porn or expects his own sex life to be like porn.

[Patience4realluv]

I think there is a lot wrong with it.

Especially if you hava gf

Dont hav lust

dats sucks lol

n like what MissUnder...said

its insulting 2 us

cuz yeah I luk gud but y you gotta

luk @ sum1 else 2 masturbate

wen you can luk and touch me!?

lol

[dtaylor31906]

Im sure your boyfriend doesn't have a promblem lokkig at or touching you but I'm sure there are sometimes you don't want to be looked at or touched then what is he suppose to do?

[Patience4realluv]

If he p*ssed me off or w.e. he should just wait until I'm good again lol

[dtaylor31906]

Lmao we can't wait that long and there isn't a gurantee that you will be in the "mood" after your good again it could be a week b4 he gets some

[Hartmut]

'He should just wait'? Does that not sound a bit unreasonable to you? What if there was some kind of circumstance where the roles were reversed; where the girls wanted sex, and the guy wasn't in the mood? Are you saying that you'd be okay to just wait in that case?

[babymama2010]

Honestly, I think porn is weird and disgusting! But I've also never understood the whole masturbation thing. I think that's weird too. I have to argue when people say that it's "normal". I would feel like the biggest weirdo if I ever tried to masturbate hahaha. I have a boyfriend that will have sex with me any time so I don't see a need for masturbation. I don't think guys in relationships should watch porn to masturbate because I believe it's wrong to get turned on by a girl who isn't your girlfriend. That's why I would have a problem with it. And I think that is a very good reason.

[weisle1]

Try this. Next time you are having sex with your boyfriend, start rubbing your clit. Then you will understand why masturbation is so great.

[babymama2010]

Nah, man! My boyfriend can do that. Not me.

[darkknight1x]

Masturbating is normal. It relieves stress. What about when your single how do you not feel the need to masturbate? In that instance do you just have a one-night-stand? We all get turned on by women who aren't our girlfriends. But it doesn't mean that we don't love our girlfriends.

[babymama2010]

Thats disgusting.

[peace-love-couture]

Masturbation is healthy and normal,nothing wrong with it.IMO if you can't touch yourself why would you let someone else.Makes no sense.Masturbation can make sex better AND it is different than sex.Who can please you better than yourself?Uh no one

[babymama2010]

Haha.. people have interesting opinions. But my mind cannot be changed!

[spazzin87]

Then you're just stubborn. We all have different valid reasons why p*rn isn't normal, and the only response you can give is... "but my mind can non be changed" if this isn't the definiton of a stubborn person, I don't know what is. it's unreasonable.

[babymama2010]

Like you said, we all have our reasons. If you want.. I can list them all.

[spike241]

I can understand why women are against it. A lot of men who use porn end up neglecting their partner because it's easier to get off to porn. They don't have to invest any effort or emotion into it.

Would you find it different if you/your partner were in the same room as the people having sex, whilst watching them (not joining in)? Or would men feel differently if women were watching porn (inc. gay porn) and stopped showing their boyfriend so much attention?

Porn paints an unrealistic picture of sex but unfortunately it is now easily accessible. It's very easy to become addicted and most men wouldn't even realise if they were addicted to it

[weisle1]

That's crap, I masturbate to porn 2-3 times a week + Have a great sexual relationship with my wife. We have sex on average of 3-4 times a week and from what she says all her friends are jealous of her. BTW all of her friends are "good" mormons and Mormons believe that masturbating is cheating. I personally think that part is a load of crap too.

[spike241]

It's not cheating and I didn't say ALL men neglect their partners. But a lot do, and that isn't healthy for either of them.

[spazzin87]

So does the problem lie within p*rn? or does it lie in a poor sexual relationship with their partners?

[spike241]

It may not be a poor relationship before, but for some guys (some not all!!) p*rn is just the easy option. They can just focus on themselves without having to give any attention to their partner. Besides, if you're relationship is poor why not try talking about it instead of watching other people have sex.

[boboaustin]

ummmmm guess I shouldn't post here because I'm not against it

[dtaylor31906]

Im just curious but why did you post then?

[lv4lv]

Thanks for the spam?

[katiesmuff]

Well again I am going to agree with you. I think it is healthy to masturbate whether guy or girl and using porn to get the mood right is not a big deal.

[nbc5023]

Well, how would you feel if men were shown in the way women are on Porn and TV in general and you know what I am talking about. It is a little humiliating for them I am sure.

[MissUnderstoodx]

nothing is wrong with guys watching porn. It only becomes a problem when its something that guys do all day everyday. Too much porn is unhealthy and girls hate it because its insulting to us that you would rather stare at the tv than be with a real women. Plus guys often compare girls in real life to the girls in the videos.

[dtaylor31906]

Who told you that guys compare there girls to pornstars cause I personally have never done that

[MissUnderstoodx]

I actually know a lot of guys that do that ...they always talk about the girls they see in the videos and how they wish their girlfriend were just lik them and had bodies just lik them

[dtaylor31906]

I feel sorry for you cause ur surrounded by guys that actually think like that

[MissUnderstoodx]

Thanks but I've gotten use to it and I don't even talk to guys who think lik that

[Kennedybreeanne]

I don't see a problem for guys to masturbate to porn as long as it doesn't effect your relationship and your life. If you can't give up time with lefty and candy on pornhut.com then your not ready for a steady relationship. If you love her you'll make sacrifices.. But she should be making the same amount!

[sporadic]

it makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him. like I'm not the only girl for him. and to be honest I should be enough? I mean I train hard, take care of my personal hygeine and look after myself in everyway. I let him have what he wants in everyway. I'll sleep with him 3-4 times a day?

why shouldn't I be enough? I'm almost perfect. and I'm not afraid to admit that. if he can't respect what I want after all I do for him. then its not good enough? I'm not going to be used. or disrespected. (unless I purposefully go out for that)

[dtaylor31906]

So you tellling me that your have said I willhave sexc with you 3-4 times a day and he still watches porn

[peace-love-couture]

Guys use porn for masturbation,it's unrealistic to think he is going to stop masturbating because you have sex with him multiple times a day.And as for you being enough,he isn't having sex with those girls,he masturbating to them,and as painful as this may sound to you,he knows his body better than you and can please himself better,and sometimes it's nice to have alone time and take things into your own hands.It has nothing to do with you

[sporadic]

Yep. and that's what I can't stand.

[dtaylor31906]

It is realistic that if you has sex with most men when they wanted every time there would be no need to masturbate maybe we can do it faster than you cause we know our bodies better but we are lazy so we still won't some help

[weisle1]

Masturbating to porn has nothing to do with you. You are hot that's true. But that is beside the point. Men masturbate. Men like porn. That is a truth of life deal with it. Stop punishing him for just being a man.

[sporadic]

I think a bigger man would respect what I want.

[vocalheiress]

the only reason I see for being against guys watching porn is IF:

-the porn starts taking over the relationship/ or invades couple time.

-The guy's attitude starts to change towards his significant other in a major way. For example if he starts to become too critical of how she is in bed out of no where.

Basically if the guy begins expecting his girlfriend to imitate everything in the porn videos &/or prefers watching porn to f**king his gf.

porn is ok (in my opinion) within reason, and even better when both parties agree with it. =)

[dtaylor31906]

Well that's how I feel about it

[soccerrun1]

I believe that watching porn can affect a mans view of women, how they treat them, and what they expect out of sex. I think that while in a relationship looking at porn can be very hazardous for the relationship

[dtaylor31906]

It wouldn't be harzodous if women weren't insecure about it and anyody who actualy had sex knows that what he see in porn is not what he is gonna get in bed

[Masheu46]

Check this page out... I think it will answer your question: link

It basically goes over WHY girls are hurt by p*rn. It's actually an interesting read.

Good luck!

[dtaylor31906]

Uhm not to be rude but did you readf the update

[Ltol20]

Truthfully I don't like it I am kinda in that dilemma. It makes me feel like I am not good enough for him if he has to be watching porn. That I am not a good turn on for him and that I am there for him to use just because he can't have the porn stars in reality. Especially beause I caught him looking only at latina porn and I'm not latina.

[dtaylor31906]

U shouldnt think that way he proably wouldn't use porn if you would give it too him when ever he wanted like every single time he got horney

[vocalheiress]

How could you ask a girl to "give it to you" every time your horny? that's unfair -__-.

[dtaylor31906]

Tats why we don't ask for it because we know that is a lot of work for a girl but if you can't give us a release then we have to do it our self and we like to watch porn why we are doing it

[fvmgirl]

Exactly there's no point in sweating the small sh*t I mean come on its either in magazines or TV why does it matter some times I watch it with my boyfriend and he watches some crazy sh*t that turns me on to so it isn't thatbig of a deal to me. :-)

[dtaylor31906]

Thanks for agreeing with me

[Anonymous]

Girls hate p*rn because they have to compete with it for a guys attention...