Can I ask him why he hasn't kissed me yet? Or is that too much?

I met this guy and he is great we went and watched the game for our first date and our second was lastinight we were going to swim but it was too cold so we jus watched a movie. He cuddled me! The thing is I know he is interested but we haven't kissed yet. I want to ask why but I don't because it maybe like an overwhelming thing to ask. What should I do? Why hasn't he kissed me?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • He's probably just a bit ... unsure whether you'll be comfortable with it or not.

    Your reservations are why hasn't he kissed me - I imagine he has the same ones; and as much as a generalization as this sounds, girls are usually the ones who like the take the physical side of things a bit slower; so he's not sure if you're ready.

    Honestly, I say just make the move and kiss him. It will prove your interest, and be a whole lot less embarrassing that the whole 'why haven't you kissed me' conversation.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Just kiss him yourself. You can make the first move too you know. He's probably just nervous and doesn't want to over step your boundaries. I know it would seem that by now you are more than willing to share a kiss, but he's probably just a bit shy and thinks that maybe you still don't fully like him yet or that you we be offended if he try to kiss you as that would be moving to fast.

    • See I'm afraid of that too I have bad luck in relationships and I don't wanna ruin it

    • See now you get it. Men go through the same dilemma's you do. It just takes one party to take that leap of faith. And odds are both people are almost worrying about nothing. I bet both of you want to kiss each other so bad, but both of you also thinks the other person doesn't. Just do it. Speaking as a guy, he'll enjoy it no matter what, even if he's not completely in love with you anyway. I've never heard of a guy being offended because a girl went in for a kiss, unless it was some random gir

    • Exactly! Such a dense question. Do girls not realize that guys can be shy? Or do they think we're all like macho heroes, who will just grab them and kiss them at any given moment?

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  • He doesn't know you like we do.

    That's not an insult, just a statement ;)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • KISS HIM. Stop waiting around for men to court you

    • So true

  • Why haven't you kissed him?

    • I want him todo it

    • Maybe he wants you to do it...

  • Shy, maybe?