Can being tight be a bad thing?

my boyfriend and I had sex this morning and he told me "you're not as tight as you used to be thank god" he then told me it hurt him to be inside me due to this. I'm guessing it can be a bad thing too and hurt guys?
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  • It's definitely possible for a girl to be so tight that it's uncomfortable for the guy; there's SO much friction and "grip" that he can get chafed and sore.

    As the AU stated, when a girl doesn't have sex for a while (somewhere from a week to a month or more), her vaginal muscles will be used to being tightened and closed, and will have trouble relaxing to allow entry, and she will be tight, sometimes problematically so, and it may take some work to relax her and loosen her up enough to enter her. But after having sex a few times regularly, the muscles will be loosened up a bit (limber is probably a better word), and penetration will be easier, even with less foreplay. If she then stopps having sex for a while, she will get tight again and the cycle will repeat.

    The same cycle applies to her being sore or chafed too; regular sex will toughen up the skin and reduce the soreness, but her "first time back" to having sex after not having it a while can leave her sore, until she has sex a few times regularly and the skin grows resistant to chafing.

  • sounds weird, if he was hurting, you were either a virgin that time or he had something wrong with his tool, because girls vaginas are elastically and made that way for easy childbirth, so I don't understand why it would hurt and have never heard of it before, you would of stayed tight if you were and that would of been better for him not bad, unless he has a babies leg between his legs, I think it was his functions not yours,x

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  • It took awhile before I could fit into my wife (she was EXTREMELY tight), but at no point did intercourse with her cause me any pain. She was in pain for the first couple of times, despite the precautions that I took.

    I suppose for some uncut fellows, it would be a bit uncomfortable if you're super-tight down there.

  • Like someone else said, squeezing really tight doesn't hurt, so its more likely chafing, I'd have thought. If its wet enough, I'd _think_ it would be okay. How wet were you?

  • After you've had sex a couple times your vagina loosens. It will tighten back up if you don't have sex for awhile.

    Honestly I've never had a girl that tight. I've had girls I couldn't fit into, and some girls who were just really tight. Never experienced pain. I could barely hurt my penis if I squeezed as hard as I could, and I'm a very strong guy.

  • Sometimes it can be too tight and hurt the guy

  • I love it tight its the best ! it probly hurt him if he is not cut.

  • i couldn't understand actually what you wanted to know

    • Her boyfriend told her that she was so tight it hurt him; she wants to know if being too tight can actually be a bad thing in some cases.