Can I Convince Her for a Blowjob?

OK my girl says she's not yet sure about oral but is there a way I can convince her?
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Well I've only talked about it seriously one time but I've left it alone since then exactly because I don't wanna force anything on her.
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  • Hey man,

    so, you want to convince your wife or girlfriend to give you a blow job? No problem. First, you have to understand WHY do women give blow jobs in the first place. Once you know that, getting her down to business is a lot easier than you’d think.

    Why do women give blow jobs?

    For a number of reasons. Some women LOVE their man BECAUSE he is what they want ( that’s another story ) and because they want to make him happy and keep him happy ( and loyal ), and they believe that giving him regular, high quality blow jobs will accomplish that. Other women give blow jobs out of fear. They are scared that if they don’t give their guy a blow job - he’ll dump them for another chick that will. Some women give their man blow jobs because they simply crave having his penis deep in their mouth, and seeing him get pleasure makes them feel amazing AND powerful. Yes, powerful. In general, the main reason women give blow jobs is because of power. Let’s leave it at that, for now. It’s a bit more complicated.

    How to convince your girlfriend to give you a blow job?

    Now, that’s a bit more complicated, especially if she never or rarely gives you blow jobs. First, re-examine your own behavior. Are you behaving like a sissy? Are you indecisive all the time? Is she the boss of your relationship, or you? Or is it a “democracy?” Your girlfriend will give you more blow jobs if you start behaving more confidently, and take control of your relationship and your life. Be more decisive and more dominant in your life and your girlfriend will instantly be more interested in giving you a blow job. Here are 3 exact things you can do that will help you convince your girlfriend to give you a blow job ( without having to beg for it ).

    1. Hit the gym. Get abs. Yeah, maybe that sounds like a lot of work, but it WILL give you more blow jobs. That’s a fact. If not from your current girlfriend, then from some other one. I’ll explain you why later.

    2. Stash up a ton of money, and start your own business. This also works well. Even better than going to the gym regularly.

    3. Get really, really good at something. Anything. Become an expert at something. Find one thing, focus on it and find out everything about it. When you’re great at something, you become more valuable to society, and your girlfriend or wife. When a woman wants to keep you, she’ll do anything - even give you a blow job every day.

    All these things will make it easier for you to convince your girlfriend to give you a blow job. These are the basics. If you are serious about making your penis into a MAGNET that your girlfriend is ADDICTED to, you have to read Jack’s Blowjob Persuasion - link

  • no, leave it alone until she is ready. let her do it on her own time. trying to convince her and always bringing it up can sometimes have the opposite effect and make her not want to do it at all.

    i dated a guy who tried to always convince me to go further sexually than I wanted. I felt he was being impatient. maybe I would have gave him head if I felt comfortable and didn't feel rushed but the way he went about it made it seem like that was the only reason he was going out with me so I dumped him

  • Tell her that you love her (if you actually do, don't lie) and that you'll do absolutly whatever she wants after. and that you'll do something special, (basically buy something expensive, or do something really romantic with her, like whatch the sunset or something, maybe candle light dinner). she'll proly do it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Hey guy's, I've been married for 2 years, and been with the girl for about 6 years
    exactly HOW MUCH TIME am I supposed to wait for?
    she gets super insecure when I ask about it cuz she feels bad cuz its grosse and what 'whores' do
    uh, tried telling her otherwise... how do I talk her out of this? she thinks blowjobs are like face $#%^(%#
    and choking and grabbing her hair and she gets all upset... I'm like? what?
    its not because she doesn't want me either, cuz if she didn't want me I certainly wouldn't hang around much longer.
    also, I can't buy her anything... she's already cleaned me out... I'm penniless and she STILL HASN'T DONE IT
    25,000$ on credit Cards and she STILL HASN'T DONE IT
    I've gotten them for free for christ sakes
    and it ain't cuz I don't go down on her!
    I do it EVERY TIME
    TILL SHE CUMS!
    how lucky is that? she's got it made

  • You need to talk to her about it and tell her how blowjobs are important for you, and not just for you but for every man. Also you should consider why she doesn't want to give you a blowjob. Maybe you're not type of man who she wants to give a blowjob.

    So, if you act like man, knowing what you want and have that alpha male attitude, then she will definitely give you a blowjob.

    I had the same problem with my girl, and I was always acting like a coward. Of course she never gave me a blowjob. And then I've started searching the internet for an answer and I found it with all the tips that helped me to get a blowjob from my girlfriend. From now on I get blowjobs whenever I want. You should check out - Jack's Blowjob Persuasion

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  • No...Forcing someone to do something they either haven't done or don't want to is considered rape, and could get you into a lot of trouble...all she has to do is cry rape!...She has to want to and only time will tell...Do you please her orally? Just let her know that it feels just as good to you too...Be a gentleman...not too many of us left!

  • Tell her you'll buy her a kitten.

    /sarcasm

    Listen, if she's not yet ready to give you a BJ... SHES NOT READY! Don't be that jackass guy that begs her to give you one. Now be a good little boy and leave her alone about it.

  • You shouldn't have to convince her to do that. You should wait until she's ready. Not try to force her. If you do that, she'll get p*ssed and you won't get your precious blow job. So just give her time and don't bug her about it. She'll do it when she's ready.

  • First, being the man, give her a lick job if she would like. That is a good way to remove any fears, curiosity or negative feelings.

    Explain to her that spit is the perfect sex lubricant and it is a good start for the next act. Blowjob/Lickjob is a good thing for foreplay, but it is sadistic to ejaculate in to someone's mouth.