The first question I would have for you is how did you receive your first anal pleasure? Was it with another guy or did you receive it from a girl wearing a strap on or from a toy? Have you ever been with another guy? This is extremely risky behavior and most women I know would not be comfortable pleasing their man anally and/or knowing he's been with other guys. Most straight guys I know are very protective of their anus and don't want it touched much less penetrated. You claim to be straight but should really dig deeper into your desires to determine where they stem from. Perhaps you are bisexual. Regardless, it is important to be upfront and honest with any woman you are dating about your sexual fetishes.
Anal stimulation does not make you gay...I think you might be surprised about what your g/f's are upto with their b/f's....I would say that they would not share that even with their closest g/f's. It falls under the same category where it is ok to be a femaile and bi, but anything "bi" even if straight is looked at negatively by society if you are a male. I have had anal stimulation and it was introducted by a former g/f. It changed my world!
My first anal pleasure was using my finger, then I used a hotdog. I tried a vibrator, but that was way too big :) As I said, I have NO desire to be wtih another guy, but would thoroughly enjoy having a woman do it.
i agree that it depends on the girl, some women enjoy pleasing their partners to the fullest extent. it intensifies the relationship's level of intimacy. it would also help if she researched a little bit of male sexuality and learn that stimulating the prostate for many men helps them achieve an incredibly intense orgasm. this may lead her to understand your preference of sexual activities with a more open mind. it does not mean you are gay, just in a quest for sexual gratification. a little more knowledge on her behalf will certainly quell any misconception in regards to questioning your sexual preferences.
A lot of girls are kind of weirded out by it (especially if they're someone who is closed-minded when it comes to sex), but others really enjoy it. If a girl thinks it makes you gay, she's an idiot. Engaging in anal pleasuring with a GIRL is in no way gay.
I've done a lot of anal play with quite a few different guys, including fingering, toys, rimming, and using a strap-on. It's all been very enjoyable for both myself and my partners.
Wow, a rim job. Just the thought of it makes me hard! :)
wanting to be with men and being attracted to men makes you gay... enjoying having your anus pleasured by a female does not make you gay. the connection is just silly. many gay men love oral sex. does that mean if you like a woman giving you oral sex, you might be gay? of course not. just like ANY other sexual activity, discuss it with your partner and if they are OK with it then go for it... just respect each others' limits/boundaries and you will be fine.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Some women can enjoy it,others just can not fathom doing it,which is understandable.
I think,if it were something he really wanted to try,then I could definitely do it for him and enjoy it so long as he is enjoying it.Plus I hear for guys anal penetration feels good because of the prostate right?
So if a man is engaging in anal pleasure with a woman, what would stop him from seeking pleasure from a man? We all know that "toys" aren't the same as the "real thing." I would not feel comfortable stimulating a man's anus whether he is gay or seemingly straight. It's un-natural for a man to want to be penetrated in my opinion.
I guess the fact that several people have commented on the possibility of my being gay sort of answers my question. The thought of having sex with another guy is quite repulsive to me -I am into girls only. But I can still get pleasure analy.
I do it to my husband, a vibe with a bolw job and he go's off so much more. We have even tried a strapon a few times, bit kinky for me but he likes it so why not
I think it all depends on the girl. I can honestly say I have been curious about anal pleasures for both me and my partner and I think girls would be surprised how good anal could actually feel. I say if you trust the girl enough, just ask her and talk about the possibility of it. and good luck :]
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