Can a guy go too deep inside you?

My boyfriend and I had sex last night and there were numerous times where it felt like he was going in way too deep inside me. At the time I was really into it but in the morning it feels like something popped or ripped open in my pelvis. Should I be worried or does this type of thing happen to a lot of girls?
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  • Three things can happen. A direct hit on your cervix can stretch or tear it. The popping may be hitting it and then dropping off it either up or down. If you are not bleeding. Let it heal for a week or two before you have sex again and ask him to go shallow and faster instead of slower and deeper. Going high is a shallow dead end impacting your bladder. Going low gives a big one farther to go but still impacts your intestines or even bone structure tell him to go shallow and learn where he is going.

  • it wasn't your first time was it? something poping or tearing sounds like when a girl looses her cherry.

    • Ive had this feeling when I have been with large guys (they tend to go more deeper and sometimes I can feel them in my stomach)

    • so guys can be too big or is it just not being careful?

    • not being careful more like...you don't have to have the biggest to hurt a girl, but trying to touch her throat as quickly and aggressively as possible is the signs of a noob in bed.

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  • Umm...if it's not just a 'sore' feeling but you think something is literally torn maybe you should go to the doctor? There have been times where I get pains from him going too deep and it will be sore the next day but I've never felt like anything was actually ripped or anything..ouch

  • It sounds like he was hitting your cervix. It's not necessarily pleasant, but it isn't a long-term worry. That happens when you're with a bigger guy and it isn't really an issue.

  • sounds like he ripped or messed you up so go see the doctor

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  • Don't worry too much--you girls are pretty sturdy--but he's likely rapping the cervix. A position change should fix it.

  • It sounds like he may have damaged or even penetrated your cervix. Even if it's not the case, it might be something more detrimental...

    Best see a doctor as soon as you can.

    • the cervix? lol I don't quite get it, I heard that the cervix is also a spot for orgasms (and can be simulated especially anally).

    • Do you know what the cervix is?

    • oh god ouch ouch ouch the cervix is not a spot for orgasms that made me cringe