Gee, kids!
If a guy puts his penis in a girl's vagina, he is putting some sperms there in his precum. Pulling out is such a lame way to prevent getting preggers! He will leave even more sperms in there and the girl is even more likely to get preggers! When a guy starts to come he can't stop. Kinda like when you have to sneeze. You can't hold it and neither can he.
Taking birth control can help you keep from getting preggers but if he wears a condom then the chances are even less. A great idea for a girl who's 14, I think! Thank god I didn't get preggers back then!
BTW, having sex is a great way to get an STD - sexually transmitted disease, that is. DUH! That's another way that condoms are good things. They make a barrier between partners that germs and viruses and stuff can't cross over.
Anyway, bee safe and have fun too!
Haha! funny. I like this answer. she's rite. once you blow your load you can't hold it, but you CAN delay when your gonna cum, but for a short period of time. "i nominate this as the best answer." : )
Everybody is not 12 years old "Rebecca" People know what an STD is and we don't need a Sex Ed teacher on here, just answers and advice. thanks hun :)
Since everyone seems to have addressed the bad method of pulling out and the risk of STDs, I'll concentrate on the other part. Guys can hold their orgasm for a bit, but not too long. Still, there are other fluids before that and they have sperm. There is a "Dry orgasm" method for men, which involves a medical precision when pushing on this one exact area by the prostrate. I know of only one person who has been able to pull it off though, as it takes MAJOR precision and anatomical understanding as well as constant pressure on that area. NOT recommended.
I am pretty sure they can hold the majority of it, but there always is pre-cum, which can get you preggers just as much as the full load. If I were your friend I would check out a planned parenthood and talk to a doctor about getting on some form of birth control.
She is on birthcontrol but there's 1% chance for prego an she thinks she can taske the risk. and she's 14.
The fact that she's on birth control is a major plus to the fact that he's pulling out. I would have to say that if he's unwilling to wear a condom, then the process they are using is the best for reducing chances of pregnancy. Although with that said, she needs to make sure she is using it the right way and also keep in mind the risk of STDs. Birth control can not prevent you from getting sick.
Std?? sex tranmetted disace i noo what it is but you can't get it from havein sex? and no they don't use condoms.
A guy can hold off having an orgasm to some degree but that depends on how much stimulation he's getting. He does have some muscles there to kinda hold it back somewhat but eventually he'll lose the fight. ha! If the stimulation continues he'll reach the point of no return and then just blow! lol! But that has nothing to do with his pulling out. He can pull out at anytime right up to just before he cums. However, that is totally NO protection from getting pregnant because even the tiniest bit of cum. like precum that occurs when a guy has an erection can get a girl pregnant. Hope this helps.
yes a guy can hold his load "or I should say some cause some guys are premature ejaculaters,"
but not all of it. some of it tends to get by and its mostly pre-cum.
being able to hold his load takes practice or he could
just stop seconds before he get the urge to let lose.
the pill nore the pull out method doesn't prevent the
risk of getting an std though.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Sure he can hold it, if he doesn't mind getting his hand all sticky, but if you mean delay coming when its time, I don't think so. He can tell when its starting to happen, but not stop it.
i know I can't hold it.it's too amazing
I can hold my cum... I do it to last longer, not to prevent getting anybody pregnant I generally use a condom. When I'm in bed and feel like I'm getting to the point where I'm gonna blow, and she still hasn't gotten off, I just pull out, tell my girl to change positions, concentrate on squeezing my muscles down there for about ten seconds or so, and I'm good to go. I usually last longer than the time it took me to build up the first time.
My ex use to say he held it to last longer
I think it's possible. I've read that you have to strengthen certain muscles and there's risk of doing damage to "that area" by doing those exercises (or so I've read, the truth is really up in the air it seems).
But generally, you can't stop it.
I agree with you! I haven't been with any guys yet that can hold it back when it is ready to blow!LOL
If ur havin intercorse? can a guy tell when he's gunna come an pull out so it doesn't get in the girl thats what my friend says she does but I doubt that he can tell or hold it? because me a girl , I can't handle either I come or not.
Oh of course. Guys know when they're about to cum. You can sort of feel the ejaculate move through your, well, tubes? Haha. Also, just because you pull out DOES NOT mean the girl won't get pregnant. Probably all men have Precum, and within it is sperm, so don't think pulling out makes you safe. It makes you safer, but not safe. This is why many people who wear condoms ALSO pull out because it decreases the chance of pregnancy an incredibly large amount.
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