Can a guy still have sex if he isn't hard?

ive always wondered if this was possible or not?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm no expert, but I would say, no, vaginal penetration (intercourse) isn't possible, although you can do other sexual things.

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  • It's possible for a guy who is limp to get inside of you, but sex would be tricky. Erections are meant to assure that there is friction, it is easier for him to stay inside of you, etc. It's a need for the convenience of sex, really. So while it's possible for him to slip on in there, the chances of him having sex are slim. It would be too complicated.

    • Would it hurt him do you think if he were inside? I don't really know y I want to know this I don't plan on having sex this way but I'm just curious =D

    • I don't think it would hurt him, but I'm telling you from some crazy experiences of my own, it's just not something that can be done easily or without some discomfort for either of you.

  • It's called "stuff f*cking" and it usually happens when a guy gets whiskey dick and is too drunk to fully get it up but they want to try and have sex anyway.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Certainly. Actual intercourse is a only part of the sexual experience. There are hands and mouths that can make a sexual encounter enjoyable even with a high hard one. I know in several cases, I had wonderful sex and never took off my clothes simply because it wasn't necessary.

  • It'd take a pretty tricky dick. lol. If you're referring to having intercourse, I guess you could try stuffing the head in and then deciding if you can or not. But about like trying to use a rubber key in a lock. I don't think it'd turn the tumblers.

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  • I think it could be done, but it probably wouldn't be very enjoyable for either of you, lol.

  • A guy could orgasm and ejaculate without being hard, but it's unusual. Intercourse would be difficult if he's not hard but maybe possible if he started out hard.

  • i think its possible but wouldn't be very fun

  • It would be like trying to stuff a marshmallow into a moneybox.

  • Absolutely! It's a completely different experience. Instead of thrusting, you contract your muscles and milk his cock. It takes a lot of concentration, but it's well worth the effort.

    • I'm confused....wouldn't being in that position with a girl make a guy get hard really quickly anyway?

    • Perhaps the first few rounds, but most guys haven't mastered the fact that they can keep on having orgasms, even when they're soft. And yes, depending on latency, you can get hard again. Try getting your guy to orgasm while he stays soft and you'll discover a whole new world of pleasure.

  • I would imagine that the guy would end up getting hard if he put his penis in a girls vagina in the first place, because of everything happening and the mood and such.