Can guys come without being fully erect?

Do they have to be fully erect in order to come or if stimulated will they come without being all the way erect? Say like when you give him a BJ. Sometimes my guy has problems getting hard enough for regular sex. He gets wierd with me if he cums in my mouth during a BJ, so I was wondering if he is getting close to cuming during a BJ if that means he would be hard enough to switch to regular sex at that moment. I never can tell when he is "hard enough". Thanks for any insight you can offer.
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  • It's not unheard of but usually, when a guy reaches orgasm he's fully erect.

    Is he on any medication? Is he stressed out? Does he have some sort of condition that causes poor blood circulation? Those kind of things can lead to difficulty getting and maintaining erection.

    • He is 55 and on two blood pressure medications. Also has stressfull job and family drama ( His father passed away a few months back and he is trying to take care of the family stuff now). So pick any of those as reasons. They all play a factor.

    • Well there you go. Sounds like a vacation is in order for him. He should talk to his doctor about the meds too. Maybe they can change him to a different drug or prescribe him something like Viagara or Cialis. If he can take care of those issues he'll probably be able to get fully erect again.

    • A vacation would help both of us. As far as the meds, that's a little more complex. The ones he is on help his blood pressure and I don't know aboutCialas, but Viagara could cause trouble with the meds he has. He worries a lot more about the errection stuff than I do. If it were up to me, I would focase on lessening the stress in both our lives and let the rest take it's own course. Hhis health is what is important to me. I don't love him for sex. I love him for him and want to keep him around

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  • Ejaculation and erection are two separate things... i can cum without being hard, and sometimes ejaculation makes me harder lol

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  • It is possible, but not very common. Usually when guys come without being completely hard they have had a lot of stimulation over a long time or have already orgasmed (perhaps multiple times) recently.

  • No

  • George Bush once said "If my hand is limp, but my d*** is hard, I can give any woman a baby." So with this logic, no.