Can I be celibate forever?

[jstaples]

I really don't care for sex or anything like that, can you actually do this? How hard can it be

[btbc92]

The whole point of celibacy is no sex, no relationships romantice, no romance of any kind, no marriage, no kids. Celibacy is for life. Abstaining from sex is for marriage or other means. I'm 25 and has been celibate since at least 12 years old. I've gave up long ago. As long as you have valid reasons then stick to them. Not everybody is meant for marriage. And other people these days just wants to fool around. I hate modern dating. All this about sex and lust crap instead of waiting till marriage and getting married young if they can't control themselves. I'm just tired of this kind of world. At this point. if no girl is interested in you then you have to look deep insode yourself and ask yourself what are you doing wrong. And if your not, ask people around about what they think of you. Mainly from women. I've found out that my personality as an INFJ, me being Christian, the traits of my personality type and what I stand for and the way I think is that from the past. I can't relate too well with others my own age, and guys think I'm weird or too quiet. Yet I'm pretty, or whatever they think of me physically. So if you have a lot of negative to them, then yeah. Just be celibate. It will be heartbreaking and hard, and you may end up shedding tears from time to time. But try not to think about it and focus on living life for you. If it happens it will happen if your open to romance. But no woman can respect your desires and if you can find yourself conforming to modern dating, then it may not be for you.

[jstaples]

Girls don't pursue me so I'm giving up on love.

[btbc92]

I get it. But it's not about giving up on love. You have love. Bit won't be able to share thag with somebody who doesn't want that with you. Also how much effort are you pursuing these girls? Do you talk to women in general? Do you at least approach them and being friends first? Do you express your interest to them? If your not putting the effort then you have to be responsible for that. Not every girl feels comfortable in approaching men. It will come off as being too forward. If girls from a far is showing intrest in getting to know you then you need to take that cue in approaching them or else they will assume that your not as interested or attracted as you say.

[btbc92]

But if you have been rejected a lot then that is a different story. I'm just trying to figure out your issue. Because it doesn't sound right. I just get the feeling your afraid of rejections and not putting effort. But just because somebody doesn't approach you it doesn't mean they wouldn't want to pursue you. I just think your lacking experience with it.

[btbc92]

that*

[jstaples]

Both I'm getting really tired of it, relationships are stupid.

[btbc92]

Well, if you really feel that way then, yeah. Just be celibate. But are you prepared for that kind of life? You are free to be in a relationship once you find somebody worthy of your love. It may take years, but you have to be open to that. Relationships are how you decide to make it. All you have to do is find a perspective partner who desires the same future as you. Remember, He who finds a wife finds a good thing. But if you can do it. Give celibacy a shot. As long as you understand what kt entitles. But you will have my support.

[jstaples]

✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾... rate me 1/10

[btbc92]

Buddy. I don't believe in ratings. I believe everybody is beautiful and unique in their own way. But I know that if it's for you to marry it will happen in the right moment, only if your ready and open to it. But if you want to be alone as I am, then do so. The one person or so who can see your heart and desires to be with you is whom you should give a shot. Again. Celibacy is a tough journey but worth it for the right reasons. I'm going to bed now. Be blessed and stay strong. And don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Only you can make this decision.

[Spellfire22]

It's not terribly difficult to be celibate. If that's what makes you happy, go for it.

[jstaples]

What do you mean terribly difficult?

[ru4367]

May i ask why you want to be celibate forever? you said you don't care but how else are you going to let out your sexual urges? masturbation doesn't help much

[jstaples]

I can't find a girlfriend, and girls don't pursue me. I'm giving up

[jstaples]

Lol yea I'm pretty much done

[ru4367]

oh stop it, you'll meet someone, just because it hasn't happen now doesn't mean it won't ever happen, seeing your profile photo, you're an attractive handsome guy so don't worry, put your energy on what you want to do in life, goals etc i don't mean to sound but typically relationships at your age range don't last long, so since you don't have a girlfriend now this gives you a great opportunity on putting your focus on other things, what you want to do in life, goals, rather than being distracted by your girlfriend. so again don't worry you'll find her.

[ru4367]

rude*

[jstaples]

I'm 19 all my friends have girlfriends and boyfriends that's real embarrassing

[ru4367]

Again you're s cute handsome guy don't worry

[jstaples]

Rate me. 1/10

[DarkHumorRUs]

If you don't have a desire then you can be celibate forever.

[jstaples]

Honestly dude girls don't pursue me so I'm giving up lol

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you're asexual. Do what you want it's your life

[jstaples]

I just gave up when it comes to love, I'm single and all my friends are in relationships. I give up on love

[Opinion Owner]

Dude, I've been there for about 4 years. it's excruciating and you forget how to do it again