Can masturbating break your hymen? (Or any sorts of signs that proves you are a virgin)?

I already had read a lot of ‘masturbating can't lose virginity’ stuffs on the web but its just not enough. Does masturbating can ruin my virginity by removing the signs that I am (e. g. tightness etc.)
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I already had read a lot of ‘masturbating can't lose virginity’ stuffs on the web but its just not enough. Does masturbating can ruin my virginity by removing the signs that I am (e. g. tightness etc.) My country is in the Philippines so I guess some liberal (whatever you call it) won't understand my "paranoia" about this stuff
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Masturbating cannot ruin your virginity - whatever you believe virginity is, it involves another person. It won't remove your tightness - you're tight (or not) because of muscles, not because of the hymen (if you're worried about that, do kegel exercises!)

    As far as breaking the hymen goes... just breathing on it will break it in some women ;p Horseback riding almost certainly will. But for some women, even intercourse won't break it - it can stretch. So it's really hard to tell, you know

    So if you want to masturbate but want an intact hymen, look at yourself in a mirror and see how easily you could fit a finger or toy inside and decide if you want to do that from there. (An intact hymen is not necessarily a good thing - I've had sex with one woman with an intact hymen, and it took us 3 tries to have sex. Hearing her go "ouch" and seeing blood all over my cock does kill the mood. We made a point of trying to break it with my fingers, but that didn't work so well either - still more blood and "ouch." And no hymen means sex is less likely to sting that first time ;) )

  • When you masturbate just play with your clitoris don't go inside.

    • Oh thanks...

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  • Hymen is a stretched thin membrane a little inside vagina's mouth. Every single girl has a different experience, for some simple fingering can rupture her hymen. For some hymen is painful while tearing - the list is endless. In any case, if you plan your virginity intact, please do not penetrate anything or fingers inside the vagina. You can of course masturbate with stimulating your clitoris. Ensure you do not have overgrown nails - this can actually scratch and hurt

  • Potentially but it depends how you masturbate, although assuming you first masturbate during puberty, your hymen should already be "broken" so that period blood can come out. And no there aren't any signs that prove you're a virgin. To break your hymen you would have to either be prepubescent (and have a hymen to break in the first place) and finger not rub. Or you have finger (or use an object) really roughly and even then there could be no breakage of the hymen.

    • No I haven't done any insertion if thats what you're trying to imply. Just outside. So if I haven't done anything with inside does that means that I still am?

    • There aren't any signs of virginity so masturbating does not remove any signs because you can be born without a hymen and your hymen naturally breaks during puberty to allow period blood to escape. The vagina is elastic so unless you've had a baby natrually it hasn't lost any tightness.

    • You still are what though? A virgin? As long as you haven't done anything sexual with anyone else then you're a virgin. Doing sexual things only alone means you are still a virgin.

  • You can break your hymen but that doesn't mean you're not a virgin.
    It can be broken more than once. There is no way to really tell if you're a virgin or not.
    Not everyone has a hymen.

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  • if you stick something inside your vagina, yes...

    • I haven't done anything like that. Just rubbing the outside part. Thank you by the way

  • No but if you have shoved four fingers and bled.

  • Riding horseback can ruin it. Who cares? You certainly shouldn't. Getting rid of the thing will likely make the first time you do it better anyways.

  • You Hymen can tear or erode for many reasons. Virginity is a state of mind. Guys can't tell.

  • Yep, if you go deep enough

    • The hymen isn't that deep: it's at the entrance of the vagina. But a torn hymen doesn't mean you're not a virgin.

    • Regardless, it still depends on how she masturbates, and her own perception of virginity.

  • Of course it can.

    • Virginity is not about an unstretched hymen. It's about no penetration (vaginal, oral or anal) by a penis. Anyhow, virginity is overrated.

    • Virgins using tampons ARE virgins.

  • Not necessary, but be careful though

  • nobody can tell if you are or not virgin, and actually nobody really cares. nothing wrong with masturbate, you just only will be more comfortable putting stuff inside you. and I know you already did it so enjoy

  • Easy, anything you put inside can break your hymen, if you masturbate only outside, it makes no difference