For me, absolutely. The two times I fell madly for a girl was through the process of having this type of mind-blowing sex. That said, "mind-blowing" didn't come from the girl having a good technique or anything like that.
In fact, the first girl who made me feel that way was horrible in terms of oral sex, but I didn't mind. Our minds and bodies felt so connected in those moments and sex felt amazing and natural in ways with her that I never imagined was possible. She even changed my body type preferences to include hers and practically overnight.
With the second girl who made me feel that way, I realized how rare this quality was that I ended up marrying her. Of course we had a great connection outside the bedroom, but what really planted the seed and made me fall madly for her was what we shared in the bedroom.3 0 0 0One thing about me that might be kind of unusual, at least to people outside of Japan, is that I've had my share of both close male and female friends. With my female friends, we've been together through thick and thin and have a closeness and intimacy which is not unlike a romantic partner. What we lacked, however, was actual romance and sexuality. It was simply platonic. That's what ultimately came to distinguish a "friend" from a "lover" for me. I discovered that I really do fall in love through the process of sleeping with a girl when we have that magic in that context. Every other part of the dating process seems "friendly" in comparison and not so different from what I can share with my closest female friends. The mind-blowing sex is what elevates her in my mind to the ultimate lover, and it's at that point that I begin to really fantasize about her on a whole new level and start intensely desiring and missing her company in ways that go far beyond sex.
Very interesting.
In my case, what I consider "mind-blowing" sex might make some people laugh. For example, with that first girl who made me fall madly for her in the process, we actually bumped heads the first time we slept together. Yet even when we did that, we both laughed and teased and it felt so incredibly natural and warm. "Warm" is what I want to use to describe it. With my previous girlfriends, I thought sex was kind of a "cold" activity. I mean it was "hot" and steamy and sexy, but in terms of emotional connection, it felt "cold", just bodies grinding and having a sweaty good time. With those two women, it felt "warm", so warm like we were made for each other. And it was totally divorced from technique: sometimes we got rough, it wasn't gentle stereotypical "love-making" always and I had that with other girls. It was just that sense of connection that was so different, and somehow I also found them ever more beautiful as a result, like being with a goddess.
Get scienced.
Oxytocin is a hormone that is released at times of physical intimacy, especially sex.
It is the hormone responsible for bonding and it strengthens your ability to trust people, find them more attractive etc.
So yes, fucking people will make you fall for them IF you are a woman, your brain will become more susceptible to trusting them and maybe overlooking their flaws.
IF you are a man however, it seems sexual activity does not release oxytocin but dopamine instead. (which is the pleasure hormone)
So instead of bonding with people men just end up wanting more sex in general.
The mechanism of this is so that women are driven to seek protection of their mates while men are driven to seek more mates to have sex with and reproduce.2 0 0 0
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nope. Sex, even if it's 'mind-blowing' wouldn't be enough in itself to MAKE me fall for someone. While it is a great way to sort of intensify feelings that were already there, it's not going to magically create any.
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