As others have said, it is far from unusual for girls to have ruptured hymens by the time they are 20+, even without sex. There are lots of ways it can happen. You can Google "hymen" and see pictures so you know what it looks like, but essentially it's like a sheet of skin that seals the vaginal entrance mostly shut (there's usually a small hole in/near the center).
The thing is, though, that it doesn't really matter. You haven't had sex (by choice, and maybe not at all), so you're a virgin in every way that matters. Besides, virginity (the physical part) is WAY less of a deal than people make it out to be. It's the mental aspect that is much more profound.1 0 0 0A broken hymen is not proof positive that a woman is a virgin. A lot of girls actually have it break doing non-sexual things (climbing a rope, riding on horseback, etc...) Some girls don't even have a hymen! If you don't remember the details then you can't be sure.
Guys won't hold it against you if you have a broken hymen, by the way, if that's what you're worried about.0 0 0 0Oops, typo. It should say "A broken hymen is not proof positive that a woman is NOT a virgin."
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Even that could not tell you if you are truly a virgin or not. So many ways for a hymen to get torn, in fact probably most girls hymen was broken before the first penis was ever inside them.
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Or 2 we are not medical proffesionals, visit a doctor for that answer.0 0 0 0Not a troll and I plan on going to the doctor, I was just hoping some on here could help me
Well I would assume most women could physically feel if it was intact or not, but a doctor will have a definitive answer for you, he or she can see tears or something you can't. I do know however that the hymen can be easily broke, such as horseback riding, can damage it.
talk to your doctor
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