Can vaginal fluids mixed with lubricants on condoms... look like semen?

[Anonymous]

I had sex with my boyfriend yesterday, and he said he didn't feel himself cum. When I got out, there was a lot of white semen-like substance on the base of his penis and all over my vagina. We took off the condom, and he only had a clear liquid which appeared to be pre-cum on the tip of his penis... could he have ejaculated and not felt it? and could the come have come out under the condom? Or did I just have a lot of vaginal discharge? it was white and smelled like strawberry... (smell of the condom) and he says it didn't look like his cum.

[jacquesvol]

Everything is possible but I wouldn't bet on it (semen can leak at the base of the condom if it was fitted badly) and get the morning after pill asap. In fact, you should have it at home. If you-re late for Plan B ( link ) then go asap to a doctor:

a longer working MAP is available as prescription drug: it's sold as 'Ella' in the USA : link in europe it's called 'Ellaone' (prescription only)

The two emergency contraceptives work differently:

* Plan B contains levonorgestrel, a progestin hormone used in lower doses in many birth control pills.

* Ella contains ulipristal, a non-hormonal drug that blocks the effects of key hormones necessary for conception.

[heatherlu]

It's entirely possible that he didn't cum, and this is the case. Very often a girls discharge can be white, and mixed with lube it could very easily look similar to his cum. But who should know better than him what his come looks like? And what does he have to gain from lying?

But either way - better to be safe than sorry right. Got to the clinic or a nurse, tell them what you saw, and say you don't want to risk anything; take the morning after pill and get yourself checked out for everything just in case. If ever you have any doubts, do that; it's better than worrying yourself sick.