Can a vibrator take your virginity?

i am a virgin,my mom is trying to convince me to get toys to relieve myself, but will they steal my virginty?
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  • It depends on what you believe your viginity to be. Some people base it on if the hymen is still in tact or not, but this can be broken through exercising and many other things, so using sex toys could break it, making you lose your viginity if that's what you see virginity as. Other people believe your virginity is lost when you have full sexual intercourse for the first time, in which case you wouldn't lose your virginity by using sex toys.

  • NO! You are a virgin until some guy sticks his penis into your vagina. Anything else up to that point and you are still a virgin young lady!

    I recommend you stay that way for a few more years

  • No, it won't take your virginity. And it'll make you a better lover when you do decide to give it up. Having your mom buy it is sort of weird, but otherwise I'd say go for it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I assume that you already masturbate, and if you do you're still a virgin. So using toys in place of fingers to accomplish the same thing wouldn't change that. It may be more fun but then I've heard that could get addictive too, and make it harder for you to come with a man. So maybe you should proceed with caution and know what you'd be getting into because you'd not want to spoil the real thing.

    • So using toys is like sex. and sex is bad, so toys are bad? You may have a point. I choose absentance, because I saw how girls changed after they did and it scared me. My elders have told me sex is a GREAT responsbility, that can easily become an addiction. So I guess I will stay away from toys.

    • No I don't think he said toys is like sex, he said it's like masturbating. But yeah, I tried a toy thing and then decided I should stop.

  • Virginity is something that you perceive. So if in your belief a virgin is someone who has enjoyed some sort of sexual pleasure then yes however if you believe a virgin is someone who has had intercourse then no : ) you could even have sex and then realize it wasn't right and claim ur self a virgin but be careful on what the other persons definition is lol

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  • I would say no, you are not. To me, you are a virgin until you've had intercourse with a man you love. No mechanical device is going to take away your virginity.

  • Hell no! You are still considered a virgin until you get drilled by a man's penis.

    P.S try to stay that way for a little while yet.

  • no it won't take your virginity

    it has to be a human penis

    toys don't count

    i mean a tampon can break the hymen

  • No damn it. In your situation it'l just prep you(and feel good otherwise), give you a little experience before you experience.

    • Whats wrong with that? it's getting diffcult to continue on this way, I am at the peak where most virgins just give up, because we become like men having sex on our minds all the time.

    • I've been there. Chiiiiiil little lady just sayin.

  • WTF mom?!?!

    WHAT THE FUCK!?!?!

    • Thats what I said to my mom when she told me she's willing buy me one XDD still offering too

    • Lol, I'd be totally weirded out.

  • Technically yes they will. There is a "seal" at the entrance of your vagina that will break. I mean I have heard girls say a bicycle accident with the seat did it. ?

    • My friend did it by falling off her bicycle.. so does that mean she's not a virgin?! um NO

    • Why do people say wrong anwnsers

  • I agree with red roses. Personally, I would not feel like I could tell people that I wasn't a virgin because of sex toys but physically your "downstairs" may not be like a virgin's after using toys.

    • Idk aren't there small ones?

  • No, you will lose your virginity and when you finally do the real thing you will be lying to your bf/man if you tell him you are still a virgin. Old women have taken over and destroyed the world, and they don't want any half-decent man to ever experience taking an actual woman's virginity.

  • no its not stealing your virginity don't worry lol. but why would ur mom be promoting this.just curious

    • My mom realizes that keeping the virginity becomes harder overtime. Takes a lot of mental restrainant to say 'no' and deal with your body wanting sex. both males and girls want all the same. so, being the 'stay a virgin' dictator she is she offered to buy me a toy for me to stay away from the boys.

    • Well loosing your virgiity should be your decision. and ys it is a great responsibility but there's nothing wrong with masterbating and sex is nothing to be ashamed of.. clearly your not ready to have it. and there's nothing wrong with that either. when you meet the right person you can make the decision for yourself but toys aren't bad..

    • Yeah it is my decision to be a virgin. my mom is proud I choose absentence though, everyone I know has already done it, but I still refuse to have sex. Even though I am very sexually frustrated as is, I'll keep away from toys for now.