Can you have a sexual alter ego?

i had sex with a friend of mine and he was saying that "it was like you turn in to another person"...i really didn't get what he was talking about ...i felt like my normal self... I am wondering if it possible to have an alter ego when having sex
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  • I think it is possible. I am already an outgoing people person. I find it really easy to talk to females too. I have never been intimidated by females my whole life (maybe it's because there are a ton of women in my family) lol.

    However, my friends do tell me that when I see a woman that I am attracted to (by her looks, personality or the fact that she can dance) I turn into this whole other person. My female friends notice it too. They said I don't turn into an a**hole or a creeper at all lol. Apparently, my facial expression changes, I block out everything else and make my move. I never hit on women, I just strike up normal conversations and talk to them normally. If the conversation doesn't lead anywhere, so be it.

    Now I have been told also that I am a completely different person in the bedroom. A woman never expects how much attention and focus I give to her. One girl said that it's like I'm in her head or something, lol. I'm this completely nice guy out in public but as soon as the door closes in the bedroom I turn into this complete sexual freak that is never expected.

  • You probably act all shy & innocent in public, but are a freak in the sack. He probably didn't expect that. You're probably more experienced than he is in bed.

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  • i think so. in bed we unleash ourselves...some people really let the freak out. I am a virgin but I'm very horny and I masturbate a lot, and I've fooled around lots, just not go all the way, and even when we're making out passionately I get very into it and guys have commented how I "get very into it" and it really turns them on..i like to use lots of tongue, if he starts kissing me I'll jump on him, grind on him, etc this guy I dated said he thinks I would be wild and freaky in bed

    i get very into it so once I start having sex it would be the same. I crave sex all the time. as long as I trust the guy I am with I think I would be a wild one in bed. I have some crazy fantasies and all.

    but I'm not so crazy in normal person.

  • Noelle is mine. She's Goth, likes sex, isn't afraid to get messy, yep... dark makeup... flirty bitch.

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  • I wouldn't see why you couldn't have a split personality or alter ego that's more into sex.

    my guess is he might have been talking about the fact it's something you two haven't done before and he just hum... see's it as though you changed personality during sex because it's a side he doesn't know.

  • Oh my girlfriend has a sexual alter ego.

    my girlfriends describes her self as a pices and she say pices is like a mother and a whore in one. Cept she's only with one guy (me).

  • I wouldn't call it a sexial alter ego because that sounds stupid but yes you can form an alter ego from getting sex simply because you may feel better about yourself(for guys atleast).

  • Can you have a sexual alter ego? I suppose so.