Can you loose your virginity to yourself?

by masturbating I mean
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i don't mean like going inside the vagina or anything like that :S
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  • yeah virginity is just a concept its not an actual reality.

    being bisexual I heard lots of interesting things from people, like straight guys used to tell me if I never had sex with a guy and just girls that I was still a virgin even if I had orgasms left and right, got fingered, played with toys, had oral sex, etc. I disagree with that. Sexual intercourse occurs between two women as well. I have been with lesbians who have turned me out and sent me up the wall. I find it hard to consider them virgins not only physically but also mentally because being a virgin is also associated with naivety, innocence, etc.

    some people see virginity as vaginal penetration. in which case, logically, you can take your own virginity using a dildo or your fingers even. if you masturbate enough you might even enjoy your first time more because you'll have already gotten used to penetration, esp. if you get a dildo and use that. What's the difference between screwing yourself with a fake penis or a real one when it comes to virginity? Unless its the fact that a human is attached to it. That's for you to decide. And if it's only vaginal penetration, are men never virgins?

    Others see virginity as not having any sexual activity at all including anal sex and blow jobs. Again, I would raise the question of whether or not its different if youve had toys in your bum. lol

    personally I never called myself a virgin once I started masturbating. my cousin bought me a dildo in middle school and I started using in freshman year of high school. lol I just used to say that I had never had sex before. if I had given bjs before having sex, then I would have said that I had only given bjs. stuff like that.

    intercourse does mean two partners at least though so you could just boil it down much simpler than I have and just say no, you need another person to have intercourse and be a non virgin. xD

  • No! In the old days, female virginity was decided by the hymen, (Whether it was intact) but it can break easily even from horse riding. You're virginity is the first time you have sex, with someone else.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No. Virginity is the moral and psychological condition of not having had p3nis-penetrative sex. Masturbating is a good way to stretch or tear the hymen within your limit of pain so that your first visit (please make it over 18) is less painful.

  • No...u can only break your hymen but breaking hymen doesn't mean losing virginity...although in older days an intact hymen was considered as a sign of virginity...now a days they get it replaced surgically!

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  • you only loose your viriginity when your V-card goes up in a puff of pink smoke. Check your purse to see if its still in tact.

  • Virginity is used only to identify sexual intercourse, meaning, there has to be two partners. I think.

  • No.

  • no.. but you can pop your cherry

  • Nope...!