Can you lose your virginity twice? I kinda think I did..?

[MisBHaved1]

Ok so I know my life is unreal but here goes so I lost my virginity (I am 21 not like 15 or something so don't give me **** lol) about a month and a half ago and he was not big it was like 4 or 5 inches I don't know not big at all anyways I obviously still felt it and I was even sore for a week or so after. Fast forward... I had sex 3 days ago with this new guy who I have been talking to for a while and he was a lot bigger and basically I bled! It was so embarrassing even though he didn't care but I did. He was like "umm you're bleeding a lot.." and I looked and I was and I was like "oh ****" then I explain that I am not a virgin but I only has sex once and he wasn't that big "and he was like oh I popped your cherry" OK so that would kind of mean that I lost my virginity 2 times right? I mean popping a cherry is losing your virginity...

[ncsquirll99]

no. you did not lose your virginity twice. your "cherry doesn't even get 'popped'" What it basically is, is that your hymen is stretched / opened up/ stretched. It is not like a membrane that covers the entire vaginal opening. So you lost your virginity with the first guy but he did not stretch you all the way. It is sorta like if you had sex with an average guy - 6 inches or so with average girth.. and then had sex with a monster guy that made you bleed. You wouldn't say you lost it twice then would you? of course not. Same thing. Anyway... my 2 cents.

[katylaura]

"popping a cherry is losing your virginity" - no. a girls hymen can break for a whole range of reasons (horse riding, cycling, gymnastics etc) but that does not mean that she is no longer a virgin. in the same way, having sex which doesn't break the hymen does not mean that the sex never happening. you cannot lose your virginity twice.

[pepper01]

nope. you can only lose your virginity once and you lost it to the smaller guy. the larger guy basically has stretched you out more since you werent used to his size causing bleeding but he is your 2nd. by the way not every girls bleeds after sex. losing virginity means penis going into vagina. you don't have to bleed. I didnt

[Snowflake]

No, you didn't lose your virginity twice. When you bleed, it's because your hymen has been broken. It's very likely that because your partner for the first time wasn't very big, he only caused your hymen to stretch but not break and when you had sex with a bigger partner, he actually broke it which caused the bleeding.

[Amorina]

It is a little different than loosing your virginity. It means that he broke your hymen because the other guy wasn't big enough to do so. Although, you weren't still a virgin, some of your hymen still remained.

[beautifulbrunette2]

if a penis is inside you that is losing your virginity...

[Anonymous]

Oh Good Grief!

[Anonymous]

yeesh and you wonder why guys are always concerned about their penis size.

[ncsquirll99]

exactly... -____-