Can you still make out of be fingered while on a period? What about while using a tampon?

[Anonymous]

I just got my period but want to make out with my first boyfriend. I was thinking I might use a tampon but I haven't used it in a while. I have a feeling he might want to try fingering me in the future or have oral so I was wondering if we can if I use a tampon or would that seem weird and gross if the string comes out? And there probably would still be some blood on the outside... Any experiences out there?

[Red_Arrow]

How this will work depends on the guy and what he is comfortable with, because it sounds like you are okay with pretty much anything in this area. You should discuss it first. If this is the first time with this guy, you are better off waiting and discussing it after you have had sex when you are not on your period.

If he is okay with it, wear the tampon. Yes the string will be out, just tell him not to pull it accidentally. With it in he can stroke everywhere outside your vagina (and in case you are one who calls the whole thing the vagina, I am talking about the hole where the tampon is). But do not finger in the vagina. That will push the tampon in deeper, as well as the string, and you may end up going to the ER to have it fished out. (I know one girl this happened to, and it was not with me.)

With the tampon in, you can wipe with a damp cloth any blood that is outside, and go about foreplay without any worries about blood. Guys vary. Personally, the tampon string does not bother me at all. I will enjoy all intimate touching, looking, and even oral. When it comes time to get into the vagina, I am fine with removing it myself, putting it in tissue (keep that close to the bed) and putting it in the waste basket. Towel under you and away we go.

Many guys are not okay with this. They probably will be later as the gain more experience, but if you got a guy that is not bothered, then put it out of your mind. He will please you while on your period just as well as when off. And there is even something a bit sexy about a gal that is comfortable having the string hang out in front of the guy.

[christopwt]

Take out the tampon wash Down there and let him play with ur v he can wash his hands after it's good to learn how to be with a woman when it's going on if not he does not learn about ur body fully tell him that he will see blood and it mite smell trust me it will help him in sex with u or any other woman he should learn. I'm a man who knows on the guys side of this it's good to ur mates body

[RandomR]

Never get fingered while using a tampon. You never know what might happen, but of course you can make out and still fingered. But that personally is up to him and you. if y'all feel comfortable fingering one another while on your period then go ahead, people do it all the time ( I never have).
As long as you don't get fingered with the tampon in your good.

[Asker]

Is it bad to get fingered with a tampon in? Are you saying this as it could be dangerous with TSS?

[RandomR]

Yes it is bad to get fingered with a tampon in, and im not for sure if it can cause TSS. I dont think it would , but if you get fingered with a tampon in it is kind of impossible because the tampon is in the entrance way, unless he does clitoris stimulation...

[Asker]

Oh I see what you mean. Thanks for the answer.

[RandomR]

No problem :)