Casual hookup without sex?

Would you be willing to hook up with a girl on a non dating level if she was a virgin and not willing to have sex but do everything else.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sure, I would. But I would also hope that sometime in the future sex would be on the table. (I wouldn't push the issue either, but she would need to WANT to have sex later when she is more comfortable with me) I mean, I would be comfortable with everything but sex for a few months, but more than that, well, I kind of want to have sex with my girl, but not unprotected. Its a personal choice for each of us as to when your ready to start actually having sex, but for me, I would be willing to wait for a few months as long as we could do other things with each other.

    However, if the girl wants to wait on sex till marriage, I would move on to another girl, because I would be unwilling to wait that long. (I would have to be in a committed relationship for several years before I would think of popping the question if she were that special to me)

  • yeah I probably would, but I think I'd struggle to understand her viewpoint - I understand why some people want to save sex for marriage, but I have never met someone with that "moral" mindset who would want casual hookups.

    • Wanting a casual hookup but wanting to save virginity for the right person.

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  • i think guys will but it won't last long. because if you aren't dating you don't really have much of a connection, after a bunch of times he's going to want sex. some guys expect sex the first time theyh ook up with a girl they aren't dating. no thanks for me. my friend is a virgin and this happened to her, after one make out he told her it's sex or nothing.

    • wow, its sex or nothing. That's kinda harsh. But I guess that at least he was honest with her before she got emotionally too emotionally involved with him.

    • yeah she didn't end up doing it with him, and luckily she wasn't too into him so she walked away okay. I was in a similar situation too, I thought he was interested in a relationship but I ended up making out with him before we had a date (dumb I know) and things got heated and he told me it's sex or nothing, so I didn't do it, and not surprisingly I didn't hear from him again.

  • I wanted to do that but my friend said that its not a good idea because some guys can be aggressive and want more so its not good to teter on the edge unless you really really trust someone. Remember guys can only think with one head at a time...

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  • What would everything else include ... "sexually"?

  • Hook up is sex, hooking together. That is where the saying came from, so hooker without sex, impossible.

  • No. Her being a virgin has nothing to do with it. I just don't do hookups. If she wants my attention then she is going to have to date me.

  • Absolutely. This can be preferred more often than not. The reason? It's still really fun and there is a lot less risk.

  • if you give bjs you're not a virgin

  • Whats everything else?

    • Makeout, handjobs, head, bjs

    • Sure why not?

  • Nah. I wouldn't get intimate with a girl who isn't my girlfriend.

  • You mean makeout, bj, eating out?

    • Yeah

  • I agree with Rykar.It`s kinda tough waiting for sex with a virgin till marriage.You`ll gonna wait at least 2 years and from personal experience, in that 2 year range there is a good chance another man will come by and steal her virginity from under your nose.And that hurts a guy alot,since he became so attached to her cause he sacrificed a lot for her.Most guys are not willing to take that risk...

  • does everything else include oral and anal?

    • Oral, hell no anal.

    • getting oral often should be enough for a while I suppose.

  • yes I would be willing to do sexual things with a virgin as a hookup. I would want to get to know her a little before though just so I know her turn on's and off's and other things we would be getting into.