Chances of getting laid while drunk?

[Anonymous]

last weekend I got drunk with a girl I met that work in the same shop where I work she is new and I ride her home every night... She's just a friend and told me she wanted to drink so we drank at her place and when I was drunk she told me I couldn't drive home in that state and to stay in her room and told me to sleep in the bed with her... She said "Don't worry about it my friends "guy friends" sleep over all the time and stay in the room with me and sleep in the bed as well" so she was more wasted than I was and told me to get comfortable and to take off my shoes and then told me to take off my belt and since I was a little embarrassed she said "or ill take it off for you" I wanted to have sex with her since she is gorgeous and I'm a 25 year old virgin due to being shy and timid in the past... but what stopped me was the fact that I didn't knew how she was gonna react if I tried making a move or asking her straight up since to her having a "Guy" sleep in the bed with her seems to be a normal thing. What do you people think would have happened if I would have actually tried to have sex with her? How do you initiate sex if your both already drunk in the bed getting ready to pass out?

[LookAgain]

First! OK -DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH THIS GIRL! IT seems she has STD written all over her. If this is normal for her then NO do not lose your virginity to her. And I would avoid getting drunk with her at all costs.

Second- SInce you are the guy which means A LOT of times I mean A LOT, the girl will wait for the guy to start making the moves first so if you're lying htere in bed together I mean you're already in bed, if she havn't ripped your clothes off by then, then it's up to you to make the moves. Just start rubbing on her arms then legs then but you have to be facing each other though. Move in really close and kiss her on her neck then go into kissin to her lips. Now if you kiss her neck and she don't tell you to stop , then that's when you kiss her on the lips. BUT if you kiss her and she don't like it then just stop there OK. But once you kiss on the lips make sure it's slow, it'll make her more hornier and want you more then that's when you start to take off her clothes but do it slowly though. Be careful and GOod luck.

p.s. if you want to lose your virginity make sure to use protection because last thing you want is kids first time you have sex and just make it be with someone you really like or who isn't a girl who have girls come over all the time. ok.

[Asker]

So do you think her so called "BFF's" guy friends when they sleep over and drink with her are more agressive than me and most likely have had sex with her? That's the reason I didn't do anything because I didn't knew how to initiate it and was afraid of rejection I was thinking that maybe since she says its normal for her to stay in her bed sex wasn't at all in her mind... what do you think from a girls point of view?

[LookAgain]

All my friends are guys, all of them but it does'nt mean I will go and sleep with all of them while drunk. Now maybe not every single guy maybe but I d feel like with at least half of them she has had sex with them. Because if it was that quick and easy with you that's how it is with everyone else. But I can't tell you what to do but Like I said I would definitely be careful with this one.

[katiesmuff]

Hmmmmm! Good question! I know many times when I have gotten drunk and either had guys stay over or I stayed over at their place, I would become aware of a black snake wiggling it way up inside me.

[Asker]

Lol are you saying every time you drink with a guy at your house you end up having sex? If so who initiates it?

[uhaveatextmessage]

It's not a good idea to have sex with a woman while you're drunk, or her. She can easily call rape and you wouldn't have remembered it, so she would have won.

However, you did the right thing ethically as well. She was basically testing to see if she could trust you, and you proved she can. Maybe when you're sober, you can sort of be a little flirtatious and see where it goes

[Anonymous]

You asked this already.

She was clearly flirting with you. She wanted sex. You were too timid to have sex. That's pretty much it.

If you were not so cowardly, you'd have had sex. Consensual sex.

As for how would you have initiated? You'd have called her bluff to take your belt off, then let her undress you, while you undressed her, and take it from there.

[latebloomer87]

Close to frigging zero. People will just think you are a fat washed up loser lol.

Don't you think you would maximise the chances of your success by making sure she is as drunk as possible, and you are as sober as possible? I mean, just from a pure intelligence point of view. Not saying you should purposely get a girl drunk but you're saying the reverse would work, and it makes little sense.

[kheserthorpe]

This girl has been trying to give you chances to have sex for months.

Next time don't get hammered. and actually put a move on her. She's not an object she's a person - you can try and she is free to accept or decline.

[MrEM4N]

Didnt like the answers you got last time you asked this?

[Anonymous]

Tempting, but you can't trust women not to call false rape charges later, even if she went along with it at the moment. Girls these days have zero responsibility for their actions if they change their mind with "oopsies" sex.

[Asker]

Well the fact that in her wastedness offer to take off my belt in bed you think in that moment she wanted sex? either way I didn't go for it since she passed out afterward and I wasn't sure if she wanted to have sex or not

[Opinion Owner]

The signs were good, but it is best not to risk it. As the man in the situation, you get blamed if anything goes wrong, even if she agreed to it at first. Best to error on the sign of caution, because the courts will eat you alive.