Cleavage around a shy guy? Will I scare him away?

Guys I'm super nervous about visiting my guy friend next weekend. We both have a crush on each other but he's somewhat shy. My question, I catch him looking at my boobs all the time. So he's obviously interested in them. I'm staying with him so do I dress with more cleavage or maybe a tighter top to let him know its OK, he can make a grab or since he's shy just dress normal?
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  • Its easy, the next time you see he's looking, and catch him, then don't look away. Stare at him until he looks back into your eyes, even if it takes a bit, then once you have his attention, tell him, "I wouldn't have worn this shirt if I didn't want you to look." :)

    An old girlfriend said this to me once...I still fondly remember it.

  • Don't assume he'll know to take a swipe at them. Guys need to be told everything.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well while you guys are on the couch and he's staring take his hand and guide it to them.

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  • Go ahead and show them off and when the opportunity arises, just put his hands on them and squeeze nice and firmly. If the cut is low enough, you can even slide his hands inside and under and whisper that if he wants them, he's gonna have to get them out.

  • If he is shy then show him that you don't have any problem with it. It would boost his confidence and take away the shyness.

    Dress sexy so that he can't help but to stare, and when you found him staring - let him know that you have caught his eyes on your boobs. If he try to see the other way, gently turn his face towards you again. He will get the idea and will be open to you and his desires.

  • I think you'll excite him.

  • You can certainly makes your breasts look more invitingly grab-able but that doesn't mean he is just going to grab them out of the blue. A shy guy is going to need some kind of verbal invitation before he decides it's okay to grope you.

  • I suggest you wear a revealing (not too revealing) top to show him that you are not pissed when you catch him looking. Also, if you catch him looking, stare at him, and smile when he looks back into your eyes. He will notice that you like him too, and like it when he looks at you. He will get the feeling that you want him, and it will boost his confidence. He will be the leader from there.