Clit hurts after fingering?

So, my boyfriend and I have been becoming much more comfortable with each other sexually. We've had sex, and it was both of our first. Recently, he's been fingering me more often lately and it feels really good. But after a while, I think my clit gets really sensitive and I jump when he touches it. He thinks its funny, and finds enjoyment out of it, but doesn't want to hurt me. I can't decide whether it hurts or feels good, and he gets discouraged when I stop him, even though I don't want him to stop. Has anyone felt this before? I just want to know if its normal or if something's wrong. Please help! Thanks :)
It's totally normal
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  • its funny you say this I mean I got fingered and he started like focusing on my clit and I found it strangly painful yes it felt good but it hurt a lot to and no one had ever really hit my clit so I was shocked and it even made my knees buckle but yeah I kinda have your problem but imsure nothings wrong

  • This happens to me frequently. Some days my body just doesn't want to be touched that way, I don't know why. Don't worry too much about it - a doctor told me it was fine, just that I am a sensitive person. :)

  • He's most likely over-stimulating it. When that happens, just move on to other activities. It's not a good or bad feeling, just uncomfortable.

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  • well it is you and your bf's first time doing this. Maybe it's pleasuring you so much that it becomes sore/hurts?

    This would be odd that you'd feel this way if you already have fingered yourself in the past. idk

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  • Sounds fun! I think it's too much pleasure