Clit itchiness and redness after oral?

[Anonymous]

I let the guy I'm dating go down on me for the first time. He was licking my clit really good. I didn't even have to tell him where to lick, he got it just right and made me so wet. He said he wanted to taste every drop of my delicious pussy so he stuck his tongue in my pussy after he made me cum. I've never had a guy do that before but I didn't mind it until he moved up to my clit afterwards and ended up sucking really hard. That didn't feel good and I told him to not suck. He went back to licking for a while but did the hard sucking again to my clit. I ended up pushing his head away and telling him to stop. He begged me to let him eat my pussy some more but I was mad at him for not listening to me about not wanting him to suck my clit. Now my clit itches really bad and is sore. I looked at my clit and I don't see any sores, bumps, or anything but the area is red and super itchy. What can I do to relieve my poor sore, itchy clit? I've already tried putting coconut oil on my clit but it provides only temporary relief.

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, I'm no doctor but I'll glad to take a look at it for you!
Have you tried Aloe Vera. I don't KNOW if that'll work, but I doubt it'll hurt.
Guys need to learn that a clit CAN be over-stimulated (I think that's the right word) and that makes it not only very sore, but downright painful and is not at all pleasurable. Either go "softly" or know when to back off for a while. Lick softly, but carry a big dick.
When I was still fucking my ex-fiancé, I could make her cum in about 20 to 30 seconds!! (Yes, I AM a cunning linguist.) When you get her to the point where she can't even stand up or walk, you've done your job well and there's no immediate need to continue! Give her a break until she's ready for more. If you want to suck on something, try her lips or take your choice of nipples, chances are she's got two.
Guys, notice how sensitive the head of your dick is when it's being rubbed? Multiply that by, what girls, about 10? And that's how sensitive a clit is! A little goes a LOOOONG WAY in clit town!! In this situation, it IS a good idea to dine & dash... at least temporarily. Also, try using edible flavoured lube (or chocolate syrup!) to cut down on the friction she'll feel from all those thousands of tastebuds on your tongue rubbing against her clit! Too much can make it feel like you're sanding her clit.
Asker, here's an idea that might help. If it's sore sometime when you're alone, try to just put the tip of your finger on it for a while. Not to rub it or roll it around, just to touch it and keep a tiny bit of pressure on it. Like if you decided to just touch your arm with your finger. You MIGHT want to remove your finger VERY slowly when you're done! Doing it fast might hurt it again.
I don't now if you'd be into it but, maybe, instead of aloe or oil, you can try a glob of his cum. Just a suggestion.
Does anybody know if they specifically make Band-Aids for clits?

[Sucram]

Congratulations, guess why he knew what to do? Yes, he got a lot of practice from others, and now you got a good chance to have caught something.

Go, see a doctor.

[Leggoddess]

Most likely your chit was full of blood before he suck on your clit. When he suck on your clit he made it so full of blood the the skin around your clit got so stretched. The itchy is it is healing and getting adjusted to it's new bigger size. You may not see your bigger size but soon you may notice it will feel bigger and may notice more pleasure when stimulated.

[JonAsk69]

This sounds like exactly what I was thinking more or less. But it’s very similar to having a hickey on your clit and it’s just healing. So when your skin is healing it can feel itchy kind of like when you have a cut on your skin. I wouldn’t worry about it.

[Apple1996]

It's normal to be irritated after oral. It's always uncomfortable to have my clit sucked on I hate it. But I don't love having oral sex

[RIVERTAY888]

Funges see a doctor urgent

[Fronk]

Sorry to hear that. I would’ve listened to you right away

[Anonymous]

My partner did get sore and got discharge when we first started having sex. She went to the doctor and found it to be some fungal infection. I think coconut oil (especially if it's scented) could make it worse.