Condom vs no protection - what is your take?

What is your preference when it comes to having sex. Do you want the penis wrapped or are you a take it raw person and why do you feel the way you do?
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  • I don't like wearing a condom and lately haven't had any woman tell me to wrap it. It's been fully unprotected for me lately with the woman not even being on birth control.

    I think a lot of it for me is the thrill of the risk. I know it is stupid to have unprotected sex, especially when the woman isn't on birth control but the risk excites me and I will be doing it again soon with a woman not taking birth control. I just cannot help myself I guess and I think she cannot either or is just trying to get pregnant. But yeah, I love the thrill of the risk. I guess I'm just being stupid.

  • I guess it depends what your objectives are. If it's for pure pleasure and ignoring all consequences, no condom. If you are trying to conceive, no condom ( Although, if people can't figure this one out, it's probably best, they are wearing a condom). If you are trying to prevent pregnancies and STDs, condom.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Never been a condom inside me and that will never change. Eleven years of unprotected sex and nothing serious on the std front and pregnant once, but I do take the morning after pill. Many of the guys I sleep with are divorced and many have had vacestimies which has them shooting blanks into me. I spend too much time enjoying sex such as having him pull out so I can suck it for a minute then put it back in and so forth. With a condom it's pretty much once you start that is it until finish.

  • I'm on the pill. Condoms always with casual partners and/or any partners whose test results I haven't seen [basically, that I can't confirm are clean]. I prefer no condoms, and don't use them with my boyfriend for a few reasons: I'm confident in my birth control, we are exclusive/monogamous, we are both clean, it feels more intimate, I like when he finishes inside, and I'm comfortable that if I DO end up pregnant we know how we'll handle it.

  • I'm pretty anal on the pregnancy issue, so I'll maybe do it unwrapped on special occasions.. *I'm on the pill and in a monogamous relationship. I DO love how it feels unwrapped though :) It fells great and it's a thrill. But if it is unwrapped, he has to pull out... just how I can deal with it.

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  • i prefer condoms , even though I am on birth control... hiv and other stds are not worth catching just for a night of fun... don't be silly wrap your willy

    • Trust is a must. That's why you should avoid those "fun nights".

    • so avoid having sex? I wasn't talking one night stands...

  • I prefer the feeling of no condom. But a using one helps my boyfriend last longer, which can make or break whether or not I get off, so that's a perk for me. But they're also our main birth control right now since I haven't had good experiences with the pill.

  • I looove the way it feels without a condom and I'm on the pill, but if there's ANY risk of STDs, we're wrappin' it. Haven't been in that situation, though.

  • I hate condom as much as I hate not having sex. So I would prefer the natural way of sex though only with the one I can trust. For the other - safety comes first before pleasure.

  • im a virgin, but I would be too paranoid if he didn't use a condom!

    all that pre-cum talk in health class lol

    plus it doesn't hurt to be extra cautious about stds and pregnancy :)

  • Without a condom feels way better. You get to feel everything and not just the friction

  • I prefer condoms because my boyfriend and preventing pregnancy. On occasions when we have had unprotected sex it was good because it was spontaneous and I know it feels even better for him. I can't feel the difference so the majority of the time we use them.

  • I cannot orgasm with a condom, so I prefer none for sure.

  • Ehhh, OK honestly no condom does feel better. I personally think they're icky buttt, basically it depends on how nervous/anxious I am about stuff happening from doing it w/o one as to what I want :o)

  • I had a 1 night stand during summer with a guy i met through a friend and stupidly let him do it with no condom and he cum inside me.. felt bad the next day and had to take morning after pill

    • Don't feel bad @kasaxxx we've all been there as the heat of the moment gets to us. My last one night stand was with an older woman who I barebacked too. I took a big risk and didn't pull-out either.

  • I like it without the condom.

    I don't engage in flings and/or one night stands.

    I trust the guy that I'm with, so no condom. It's warmer.. xD

  • without a condom it feels way better

  • Wrapped Up! the only way I would ever, ever have unprotected sex is if I had my tubes tied or cut. I would never want to risk anything, I mean even with a condom there's still a risk it could rip.

  • I think it's best to stay with the condoms as well as birth control, unless you know the person well enough and trust them to have good health and keep your best interest in mind. Accidents happen, people get knocked up.

  • I love the way it feels of course, but we use condoms for birth control

  • I don't use protection when having sex either and have become too used to the bare skin on skin sensations. Casual FWBs and exGFs in the past preferred no condoms either which was great.

    There have been times where I've solely relied on the pull-out method for birth control to avoid pregnancy where it's worked well plus I do have STI check-ups about twice a year and have never caught anything.

  • Until I'm married, I won't have sex unless we're using at least one, preferably two forms of birth control. It's simple. If I wanted kids, I wouldn't use protection and since I don't, I do.

  • I prefer sex without a condom. I've never told a guy he had to wear a condom. Some of them took it upon themselves to wear one. I'm on the pill, never gotten pregnant, never had a STD, I get checked regularly. Feels so much better.

    • My wife and I are also ones who don't use or like condoms. Even with our open sex lives neither of us has been requested or required to use a condom. We also get checked regularly and are and have been STD free.

    • Did the guys who had sex with you without a condom come inside of you or pull out? If they pulled out where did they come on you?