I think guys like that are on the creepy side. It's OK to have an ATTRACTION for girls who look like me, hell it's welcomed, but fetishism is creepy to me because it's like you're not seeing me as a person and stereotyping me. Even positive stereotypes aren't always flattering because not only are they probably not seeing you as a person, but you're probably easily replaceable in his eyes because he can just go find another girl who looks just like you that can fit his fetish. That's why I find it disturbing
I couldn't do it, if you want to date me date me for me, not because of some stereotype you think I'll live up to (especially because he'd be pretty disappointed). I'm black and I've always been attracted to white guys but I'm definitely scared that I'll wind up dating a guy who just wants to see what it's like to date a black girl.
A tiny bit of a fetish for my race is okay. But if he has all these freaky feelings about it the most you could do with that is have fun with him, just for the experience. A serious relationship probably won't happen.
Honeslty no..BUT Iv seen A LOT of men have insane fetishes for LATINA WOMEN..me being a latin male..I find this offensive cus they "want to bang our women" you know..so yes I feel that racial fetishes ARE offensive..I could care elss about biracial dating..but FETISHES..no..
Well if the main reason why a girl wanted to date me was because I'm caucasian that would completely turn me off. If a girl of another race liked me as an individual and wanted to date me that's a different story. This is all hypothetical though.
she probably wouldn't even tell you that.
haha true but you should be able to tell if somebody truly likes you or not
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Are you insane?!? In all my years, I am too accustomed to people telling me why they WOULD NOT date my people(black). Any woman who's Down-With-Da-Brown is good in my book. Fat chicks, white chicks, oh...ASIANS!
Make love not hate right?
Well I could understand why you, as a black man, would see it that way, but it wouldn't be disturbing if a girl was only attracted to you because of a perceived stereotype about black men and wanted you to play into the stereotype at least somewhat?
Depends on the stereotype. For example, if a woman dated blacks because she thinks we are sexual whackos who will screw cows and anything else, I'd have a problem with that. Otherwise, please be good to me :) AND WHO GAVE ME A THUMBS DOWN?!?!?! >:( shame!
fet·ish [fet-ish, fee-tish] noun
1. an object regarded with awe as being the embodiment or habitation of a potent spirit or as having magical potency.
2. any object, idea, etc., eliciting unquestioning reverence, respect, or devotion: to make a fetish of high grades.
3. Psychology: Any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.
My attraction to Asian girls is not a fetish. It is a choice.
Yeah, Asian women are quite good.
Yeah but no one said your attraction to Asian girls is a fetish, or maybe so but no one here said it.
Agreed. I choose to associate with Asian women for the simple fact that I get along with them better than with many of my American females. Just how it is.
I doubt many girls have a fetish for 'indian guys'
so I think I'm fine
I sorta have a fetish for indian girls, but I guess that's not the same thing. :-P
you'd be surprised I have quite a few friends who will only date brown guys
I don't know if it's a "fetish" or a preference but damn do I have a thing for indian guys
no, I don't want to be looked at as a fetish. I want to be liked for who I am, not the color of my skin.
I'm guessing there are very few people who have a fetish for this. Most of the time it's a preference. I guess I could do this providing that she won't date any caucasian guy, but, rather, only a caucasian guy with the right personality.
You'd be surprised...
I don't think so. But I'd want them to lilke me for me, not because I'm black
Most likely not. I'm white, and I'm not interested in woman who go with black or Asian guys...shows a lack of self-respect IMO, considering the attraction other races have for white women is often essentially a means to violate/dominate as revenge for perceived historical injustice.
Okay but what about a black or Asian girl who has a fetish for white guys?
I wouldn't find it offensive. I know Asian girls who go for white guys pretty much exclusively and laugh at Asian men...got to take it as a compliment really.
I find there are a lot of people who won't date someone who go outside of their race, assuming many of the other people outside of their race are not dating them for the right reasons.
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