Couple of questions about jerking off your sleeping boyfriend.What I want to know is how would.....

[iluvtubesox]

you keep Mr. sleepyhead in dreamland while you are having your way with him? Would you jerk him off slowly and gently so as not to wake him up? If he does start wake up do you stop until he passes out again? Or have you devised a method to quickly put him back to sleep so that you can finish him off? Does he even know about what you do to him or is it your little secrete? Please provide lots of details of your female exploits. This is one of my fantasies.

[ChibiNavy]

I've done it to my husband too many times to count, i'm actually writing this as he's sleeping besides me and i'm waiting for his deep/rem sleep so i can jerk him off. He loves it, sometimes i just jerk him off and i get so aroused i don't even have to touch myself i cum as i'm stroking him, when that happens i'll just jerk him until he comes ( some times he wakes up after he orgasms but most times he doesn't... if i do it during rem sleep he tells me it gives him awesome sex dreams
but what i end up doing 95% of the time as per his request is i start jerking him off, then once he's good and hard i put his hand on it and he jerks it himself while sleeping (same as the first scenario he's always the one who finishes the job while sleeping) and just when he's about to cum i get on and ride him, which wakes him up and has him (and me obviously) all hot... even if he is sleeping he loves it and yes it is consentual

[Sambelfast33]

I want a wife like you hehe

[laundra]

i have always wanted to get a guy off in his sleep. I've tried it a couple of times, but my boyfriend always ends up rolling over and I can't get to it anymore. or I am afraid he will wake up and think I'm a creeper so I don't even try. would be totally hot though. sigh.

[ChibiNavy]

The trick is to do it when he is in deep sleep/rem sleep otherwise he'll wake up. Deep/rem sleep usually occurs after 60-90 minutes of sleep and becomes deeper throughout the night. If you aren't sure of what that is just google the signs to help you out. If he rolls over on his side you can just gently roll him back onto his back. when my husband comes to bed with no underwesr i know it's the green light to wake him up later on, but sometimes i just have to pull down his underwear down slightly below his butt exposing him and then i gently start jerking, he may be hard or flacid they puff up and down many times during the night it's involuntary but once you start playing with it and his balls he'll get hard in no time. You can tell when they are about to cum so it's up to you to decide to make him cum or not Why not ask him if he's game beforehand, or just do it and jump on and "ride him" midway, most men love impromptu sex UNLESS you know he would be offended then don't do it

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

Seriously?!?!?

That's what is going on tonight on here?

Why don't you go watch some television.

This is wrong on so many levels. One, at what point is it ok to fondle someone while they are asleep?

Last I heard, that was a good way to get a sexual assault or molestation charge.

Secondly, if this was two people who were strongly committed to one another, wouldn't the point of a "surprise" like this be to wake them up?

Why would anyone want to engage a sleeping person in sexual activity. That sounds like an entrée to necrophilia.

And I take back my comment about you watching television. That's probably what caused this post in the first place.

[iluvtubesox]

If you read all of my question you would see that there are a couple of questions that are similar to mine that have already been posted. So, I can't be the only guy who fantasizes about this. Instead of calling it "wrong on so many levels" you should learn that people have different sexual desires other then your own and be more receptive to them. I certainly did not insult your prudish 1950s view of sexuality between a man and a woman.

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

Nothing I said was prudish, and I think it's amusing how nothing you responded with had anything to do with your original post. If you're so interested in defending your behavior has legitimate, you would have ignored me and kept pressing your issue. And yes, we've all seen the "similiar" posts on here. I give you credit for presenting yours with very convincing language, as if it was legitimate. Whenever we this kind of post, we know it's just someone being perverted.

[iluvtubesox]

I'm not defending my behavior. I'm just trying to educate you so that you're not so ignorant in public next time. And no it is not perverted when you have two consenting adults who are okay with it. The forum says SEXUALITY! Get a hint buddy. If you don't like what you are seeing then don' t look at it. Stop posting your comments and go back to your Ozzie and Harriet lifestyle. Or can you get your girlfriend/wife to start posting some stuff because it might be more interesting? Is she cute?

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

Ok dude. I was willing to hear you, but now all you're doing is personally attacking me. First, it can't involve TWO consenting adults if one is incapacitated. This argument has already been brought up with the couples in NYC who were drugging their wives and taking turns on them. When one of them died, it was discovered that the people administering drugs were overdosing them. I realize you're talking about sleep, but the if you don't know what's happening, how are you consenting?

[Sambelfast33]

I would weaken up to that no problem.

[ChibiNavy]

Yeah i would have thought most men would simply love being woken up with sex but apparently from previous posts some don't 🤷‍♀️

[Sambelfast33]

@ChibiNavy I've never been lucky enough to be woken up while getting played with. I would tale that as a huge sign.

[ChibiNavy]

Perhaps tell your partner that this would turn you on? Do you have that kind of open/honest relationship?

[Sambelfast33]

@ChibiNavy I have hinted at that loads of times. I've even went as far as shaving all my hair down there lol

[ChibiNavy]

Ohh haha well then your only next obvious steps are either to forget about it or tell her straight up what you'd like if you think she'd be open to it Do you know how she'd react if you woke her up for sex? No fingering or anything just perhaps wake her up with grabbing her breasts and some kissing? perhaps you can try waking her that way in the morning for some "breakfast in bed" and then work your way up to suggesting her doing the same, mornings or during the night

[Sambelfast33]

@ChibiNavy see I thought by shaving it she would be more interested in touching. I think it looks better. I'll try breakfast in bed and I think she would shout if I was touching her boobs 8n the morning especially around the nipple area.

[ChibiNavy]

Shout? Hope you mean with joy and not terror hahaha Good luck to you there buddy, a healthy sexual relationship is always nice to have with your partner

[Sambelfast33]

@ChibiNavy Oh no nice and gentle to start with.

[DaisyNJ]

I do it. He will wake up confused at first but then join the party.

[YoungGirl95]

I do this with my husband ALL the time.
I’ve also told him before bed quite a few times that I was horny and wouldn’t mind him playing with me after I fell asleep because I was pretty tired but still wanted some lol.

But yes, I’ve jerked him off, given him head, even rode his hard as a rock cock while he was sleeping. You know what he did when he woke up with me on top of his hard dick?
He grabbed my ass and hips and grabbed me to his chest and went at it! Lol

So all u people judging us, why r u even ON this questions page then? Lol
That’s theREAL question here 😉

Be proud of ur sexuality especially if ur partner ENJOYS u!
Anyone who hates on us probably doesn’t get laid ❤️

[Anonymous]

I tried doing this to my boyfriend one time and I was messing with him for a good ten minutes until he rolled over from his side to his back I continued but I just started laughing uncontrollably and woke him up. Nothing was funny but I just could stop laughing