right now, if you like fooling around with this man then I would highly recommend experimenting with what you don't know. I'm assuming he is aware of your inexperience. and with that I would recommend a healthy dose of confidence. make him aware that even though you don't know all about the things to happen that you are completely comfortable with everything that is about to happen and you can do this without saying a word - get me!?! when you progress to second definitely play with his hair, if your laying down. wrap your legs around him, move your hips into the rthymn he creates, especially as he goes to third, allow yourself the freedom to make little noises, it fills silly the first time you start being vocal, but trust me, you need to be totally into learning to being in the moment. this is the way you show him your into him and the progression of being with him physically. While trying to learn what turns you on - say at second base, think about the things he's doing that feels flippin awesome! Feel free to tell him you don't know what's best. it will encourage him and keep him interested in paying attention to the foreplay longer than say if you know enough to skip those longer playtime sessions. tell him what feels great out loud. I've found men love it when you praise what they're doing that makes you feel good by describing it out loud! starting a dialog about different touches, kisses, or licks is great, but you have to be confident enough to say those things. if your having difficulty vocalizing what feels best think about this. when you reciprocate, say you go down on him, you need to be in the mode that you are enjoying him without reservation, I call it reckless abandon, but you still will follow his clues, whether its thru sounds or slight body shifting its part of being in the moment, following what he wants more of by changing position, technique and suchwithout a spoken word. if you are definitely committed to sleeping with this man, and you've gone a few bases already a few times. whisper in his ear at an unexpected moment that your looking forward to a particular part of your makeout session earlier in the night. It will get him hot, and let him know that you want him hot and you are wanting to enjoy him and that particular part your fond of acting out. I can not emphasize confidence enough. Part of being in a relationship with someone is having the freedom to be yourself, so you won't be looked down upon by him for saying slutty things that you would never dream of being overheard of by someone else. he'll adore you for it, and you'll learn what drives you by trying different things, whether gentle, rough, or in between. and you need to know that its okay if at different times you want different things. We all have our moods and our needs change with the situation. That's totally okay and to be expected! wish you luck. have fun learning what you like!
Wow, thank you so much for this. I've gotten it in my head: confidence, don't be afraid to let him know what I like, through vocal and through motion. Thanks! I appreciate EVERYTHING! Definitely have to reread it more than once. =D Yes, there's that much info in there.
hey I'm a virgin too. I don't want to lose it yet, but me and my guy still like to play around and do other things besides sex. your guy could try fingering you, if he know how. he just has to slowly put his finger in your hole and touch your g-spot (which is inside your vagina) grose I know, but if he touches your clitoris(the thing above your hole) then you should get turned on and wet! lube always helps.
you really just need to experiment with him honey... or experiment with yourself...
Hmmm. How far along are you now? 2nd base? 3rd base? Wanting to go all the way?
If your trying to get to 2nd base try not wearing a bra, or take it off (like in the car or washroom)when you two are alone. Start pressing your chest against his, move his hand up under your shirt. 3rd base. Try shaving down there (search shaving or ask here how to do it so that you don't get razor burn) Same scenario don't wear panties & when your making out open the button your pants.
Try to add a comment so that we have a better understanding of where you are now. Maybe some of the girls can help & tell you how they did it.
What turns you on? What are your fantasies? Try what's on your mind or what you have been thinking(fantasizing) about.
i think you should bend over and let him spank you. that would be a good start.
Hahaha duude
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