Cuddle after sex?

my boyfriend always cuddles with me after sex and I have never had a boyfriend that does that. Is this a good thing? I have always heard not to make you man do this because they hate it. Should I make him stop? I personally enjoy it
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Most Helpful Guys

  • LOL HATE? LOL this is funny sh*t. :'D

    Listen, any guy who hates cuddling with you, clearly has no real feelings for you and is just interested in having sex. Hell, if my girlfriend doesn't let me cuddle her, even if we didn't have sex that night, it wouldn't be something I'd be very happy about. I'd seriously have to talk to her about it, because I absolutely NEED to cuddle with the person I love! It's not something I can live without!

    Now wait, don't get me wrong - I'm not saying that if a guy doesn't cuddle with you, it means he doesn't care about you. But if he really does like you, he's definitely not going to HATE doing it. EVER! In fact, I'd find it really weird if he doesn't feel like cuddling. >.> WTF?

  • This is normal. Not all guys are going to be the same. Some guys like that others don't. Its not going to be the reason for a breakup if he doesn't like it. If you really want to see if he doesn't like it, stop doing it for a couple of times and see if he initiates the cuddling.

Most Helpful Girls

  • you don't have to stop doing something because you hear guys hate it. if a guy cares about you then he'll want to cuddle with you. guys hate cuddling with girls they have no emotional connection to. if he didn't wanna cuddle with you then he would find a way to get out of it. if you enjoy it then keep doing it! the relationship is not all about what the guy hates, there are things that you like and things that he likes you can do them both

    • Bingo.

  • seems like you just found a guy who likes doing it so...leave it alone..

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  • Guys doesn't cuddle girls who they don't like.

  • NO DONT MAKE HIM STOP!!! I personally love cuddling, and that just means ur boyfriend is extra special and its all the more reason to not break up with him...

  • I love to cuddle post-sex. If I have someone I like naked in bed, you darn well better believe I'm going to take full advantage of that. The ones that did not were probably not that emotionally attached to you.

  • Men do not hate it. We become too exhausted after the act to continue expressing love. Your boyfriend is a very sensible person and he also enjoys doing this. So please keep enjoying.