It just happened to me... My girlfriend of 3 months decided to tell me today that she's had HPV for 3 years now. I asked her why she waited so long and she basically couldn't say anything except sorry... I have yet to get tested... Wouldn't be a deal breaker if they're honest about it from the beginning but I'm done with my girlfriend after she pays the bill for getting tested. If I had known before hand, I wouldn't have been as liberal in bed with her but it wouldn't be a deal breaker. Before today, I actually thought I was so lucky to be with her and all that crap... If I'm clean... The next girl I ever have sex with will be my wife...
0 0 0 0It wouldn't be a date deal breaker but I would definitaly hesitate in my decision to have sexual relations. I probably wouldn't go to far in a sexual way unless I liked the girl enough to marry her. If it's just more of a short term thing, then I'd feel more comfortable with another girl.
0 0 0 0Yeah I initially thought no one is gonna date me! But I guess this will just be another way to weed out who is serious and who isn't :/ thanks for comenting!
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As long as you're upfront and honest with your partner and the precautions you need to take (like wearing a condom every time), I'm sure a guy wouldn't find your HPV to be a deal-breaker.
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0 2Just so you know, don't rely on condoms as your safety net. They're not effective 100% of the time.
1 0 0 0thanks...but you never answered my question
Oh, okay. In my view if I knew about the HPV then the likelyhood is that I wouldn't go there.
I understand your point thanks!
the biggest problem about HPV is that people ARE NOT EDUCATED ABOUT IT. I have the low risk strain (warts)... while I was initially devastated I later found out how common HPV is. The bigger problem I face is the stigma of dating single women who don't know the facts about HPV. I scared of being treated like a leper when I have the most common STD in the united states.
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