Defloration?

rate the pain from 1-10. 10 as most painful. I'm scared to death! :-s any advice?
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  • For me it was a 1. I enjoyed it.

    From a physical standpoint, It depends on your hymen. Unless its unusually thick, there may be a quick flash of pain that will hardly be noticed.

    From a mental and emotional standpoint you need to relax and think positive. If you're nervous or upset, your muscles will tend to tighten and you won't generate natural lubrication of your vagina.

    You will be really uncomfortable and the pain will bad.

    Relax, think positive and enjoy. You might also get some artificial lube if you are afraid you might not be able to create the natural lubrication.

  • My first time didn't hurt that bad but my hymen was already broken due to an accident I had when I was younger. It did hurt though I would say it was about a 4. If you are worried and nervous the pain will be more intense. You need to be with someone you are comfortable with so you are relaxed. The more relaxed you are the less it will hurt.

  • Its diferent for every woman. In my case no blood no pain, maybe I poped my own hymen. You'l be fine.

    • No blood?! no pain?! amazzzinnngg!! :D

    • Yup no blood, just try to do activities that will tare it like biking, or hose back riding. I used to ride my bike some what when I was younger.

Most Helpful Guys

  • In regards to actually breaking the hymen, I can't really say. My girl's hymen was broken before we had sex (due to horse riding, I believe).

    As for your first time in general, it depends on the guy. First, it depends on his size (obviously). Second, it depends on how he does it. If he goes slowly, then it shouldn't hurt as much.

  • i just want to say if your between 18-24 and still a virgin congratulations you should be proud of yourself

    • Why thank you! I'll be turning 19 soon :) but anywayy,, I'm just curious about the feeling

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  • I'm scared too! I've thought actually about how much it will hurt.

    • Same here.. I'm hella nervous!

  • id say it was a 4 or a 5

    • 4-5 isn't bad at all :)

  • still virgin

  • Wow congrats but it's really not that painful :) yeah it hurts a little bit but believe me once that first step is taken you'll get used to it :) I personally have learned to like the pain it's kinda a turn on :)

    • Hahahhaa I'll be keeping that in mind. thanks a lot. it made me feel better :D

  • I lost my virginity when I was 17 and it didn't hurt really at all. I think it was because he had a small penis though, because at 20 now, I've had my fair share of sexual partners and sometimes if he is rather large, it still kinda hurts.